No, you are (as usual) trying to reframe the debate in a particular narrow way.
Yes. That particular narrow framing is to debate the thing itself - trans rights - in its own terms. That's the appropriate framing and scope for a debate about trans rights.
Sex is a characteristic of humans. Skin colour is a characteristic of humans. Both (and many others) have been and still are used to discriminate against groups and individuals.
The difference is that some sex segregation makes sense. Racial segregation does not. Sex is not analogous to race, in the sense you need it to be, to argue about sex in terms of race. You should stick to arguing about sex in terms of sex. Look how much time you've already wasted, arguing about the aptness of your analogy, instead of arguing about the thing itself.
It may be axiomatic for you, but it has been shown that humans can often figure a problem out when it is framed in a way they are more familiar with.
No it doesn't. It shows that neophytes can more easily engage with the basics of an unfamiliar concept in terms of a more familiar concept. It is always intended that serious students will move quickly from the more familiar concept to mastering the new concept in its own terms. Nobody solves real problems in general relativity in terms of a bowling ball on a rubber sheet.
However, this isn't about finding solutions or enlightenment or better use of resources, it's about emotions such as disgust and fear.
Yes, I'm disgusted at the idea of anti-scientific and irreversible trans-affirming medicine for minors.
Yes, I fear for the privacy, dignity, comfort, and safety of women, when fiat self-ID becomes enshrined in public policy.
I think these are both reasonable emotions to experience, about those things. I think my feelings are in sync with a rational examination of those things. Feelings supported by reason is kind of the total package, for humans.
There should be very good reasons for segregation. E.g., violent humans should be segregated from non-violent humans.
It was a yes or no question. If your answer is to abolish sex segregation in sports, prisons, shelters, locker rooms, etc., then that's a different conversation.
Anyway, I'll repeat the question:
Do you think men (males) should be entitled to override sex segregation whenever they want.
I do not believe there is.
Would it disgust you to know that trans rights activists aggressively advocate for such treatment? Would you fear for the health and safety of children who fall under the care of such advocates? I ask, because you say this is about fear and disgust. So I'm curious what triggers your fear and disgust in these matters. Because it sounds like we're actually on the same page.