So what ideas do you have about the trans entitlement to sex-segregated spaces for women via self-ID?
What ideas do you have about irreversible trans-affirming care for minors?
What ideas do you have about criminalizing parents who don't respect their minor child's preferred pronouns?
Well, that's just it. It's not something I think about much. Therefore, not exactly my cause. I came to the thread primarily because I don't have a solid idea about it. I hear all the noise, but it doesn't really describe anything I'm up in arms about.
I'm actually okay with males and females using the same facilities and am not mortified by the idea of one sex seeing the other naked. So that hook won't impress me. I think it's just as disturbing to shower with the same sex as the opposite if you're used to neither. And I've done both... with no sexual overtones involved... initially with family right on up to age 10 or so. It wasn't every day, but I've had the experience.
And then there was a little skinny dipping even after puberty (right up into adulthood) with girls who weren't related, too. I can't say that was entirely asexual... I was definitly interested in looking, but no actual sex or even groping occurred. I don't see that sort of thing as unacceptable in any way for either sex. Males (even CIS-hetero males) are entirely capable of controlling themselves. Sometimes it takes a little practice, though. Send away the ones with boners for sure until they can control themselves, but it can be done.
I have no interest in being a sports spectator, and by extension don't care to have a say in how they do it. No kids, so there aren't any dependents directly affected, but I don't suspect I'd mind either way if there was. It's kind of hard to know how you'd think in a different situation you're not actually in, though.
There's just not a lot there of interest to me.
Do I have to have an opinion? Can't I just leave it to people that know/care more than I do about it?
The way I see it, the fashionistas (the same people that decide what art is popular and such in this period of history) decided that this particular time was all about trans. Do I have to get on board and make it a factor in my own life, or am I allowed to just go on as normal? I was never particularly hostile towards the group to begin with, but I also don't go out of my way to hang out with them, either.
Mostly, I'm just annoyed by all the noise. I know that's selfish, but is there any reason I simply MUST be dragged into it? I'm not talking about here... the noise goes well beyond the forum and I'm quite aware that I could just not click on the thread.
I did know someone with obvious gender dysphoria when I was a kid, but that doesn't mean I have any expertise about it. We were sort of friends, but it was often awkward. That was in the early 1980s though. I wouldn't presume to know what would've been best for the kid in today's world. Only he (or she... not even sure he/she cared about pronouns at the time, but was physically male) can answer that. I have had no contact with this person since Junior High when the family moved away, though.