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Cont: Transwomen are not women part XII (also merged)

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You take other people's perception out of the equation and what are we even doing?

Are we talking about "Okay but what if we have a perfectly spherical transperson over a infinite plane of uniform gravity that falls over in the woods does it have a gender?" At that point does it matter?
 
To use your example of transatlantic, the journey is across the Atlantic and the destination would be the USA or Europe, so transwoman used in that sense would be a journey from a gender to another gender via woman. Which is nonsense.
No, the journey is to being a woman (for social purposes).

Enough of the pedantry.
Oh, please, I would love that.
 
Trans is used there in the sense of "transitioned to" whereas Cis is used in the latin sense of "on the same side as". the latin sense of trans is "on the opposite side to"

Using trans in the same way as cis would mean a trans woman is a woman who wants to be a man.

Is the use of trans and cis in different ways deliberate?

Probably.
? I didn't use trans "in the same way as" cis. Don't think anyone else does either
 
Kinda seems like there's a very straightforward definition: someone who identifies with the gender opposite their sex. (or, more strongly, is the gender opposite their sex)

Again but sex DOES have a definition that is counter to that.

I think that's the big issue with the cult of the "Identity" that is core to the trans movement.

I can identify as anything. If I'm not it what does it matter? I can identity as 6 foot 3 with 1% body fat and the schlong from Boogie Nights. Doesn't matter. I can call my bank and say I identify as a millionare, my account balance is still only going to have on comman.

I can say something like "Okay my sex is 5 foot 6, but my gender is 6 foot 3" which is pretty much where we are at with transgenderism, but again I'm not going to be dunking any basketballs no matter how hard I close my eyes and identify so... yet again we are back to my core question. WHAT ARE WE DOING?

And again the answer can't be:

"Mumble well that's different mumble."
"How?"
"Mumble it's complicated mumble spectrum mumble."
 
Again but sex DOES have a definition that is counter to that.

I think that's the big issue with the cult of the "Identity" that is core to the trans movement.

I can identify as anything. If I'm not it what does it matter? I can identity as 6 foot 3 with 1% body fat and the schlong from Boogie Nights. Doesn't matter. I can call my bank and say I identify as a millionare, my account balance is still only going to have on comman.

I can say something like "Okay my sex is 5 foot 6, but my gender is 6 foot 3" which is pretty much where we are at with transgenderism, but again I'm not going to be dunking any basketballs no matter how hard I close my eyes and identify so... yet again we are back to my core question. WHAT ARE WE DOING?

And again the answer can't be:

"Mumble well that's different mumble."
"How?"
"Mumble it's complicated mumble spectrum mumble."

Because gender is a social construct and being 6'3" is not.

Though, being "tall" is a social construct, and definitions probably are socially dependent. In a land of 5' tall people, the 5'8" person is a giant.

What does it mean to be white? What does it mean to be black? Is a black person who can pass as white black (maybe, maybe not). Is "race" even real. Does it matter? Society sure as **** made it important, real or not.

Sucks that social constructs aren't as easily defined as other things, but thems the brakes.
 
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Gender is a social construct, you can't take out other people's perception.

Gender is the same thing as sex except when it is except when it isn't except when it is except stop asking you're being a bigot.

Again I'm doing being trapped by terms. Variable A is biological differences that objectively exist and can't be changed just by fiat and Variable B are expectations put on us by society. There is no third variable.

Variable A is whether your like it or not and Variable B is something we are not behold to.
 
And also there are no contexts in which gender matters, except as a proxy for sex.
The most thorougly gendered settings I can think of offhand are clothing stores and drag shows. In both cases, people can freely choose to perform gender expression at odds which what you'd expect when gender is a reliable proxy for sex. In the specific case of natal females who pass as men, you wouldn't even notice that's what's going on as you're browsing the aisles.



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Okay. One person has this gender and the other has another. How do I have to treat them differently in order to not be a bigot?

That's a values question. Biological reality is silent on whether or not gay people should be able to get married or dragged behind the bar and beat to death.

If you're asking why the majority should not needlessly discriminate against the minority.. I dunno, vague liberal values? Individual liberty, that kind of thing. I'm not an ethicist.
 
That's a values question. Biological reality is silent on whether or not gay people should be able to get married or dragged behind the bar and beat to death.

If you're asking why the majority should not needlessly discriminate against the minority.. I dunno, vague liberal values? Individual liberty, that kind of thing. I'm not an ethicist.

No I'm not asking for you to give me a moral argument about WHY I should treat the group a certain way.

I'm asking you how I'm supposed to act, on a practical level, absent of moral judgement.
 
No I'm not asking for you to give me a moral argument about WHY I should treat the group a certain way.

I'm asking you how I'm supposed to act, on a practical level, absent of moral judgement.

Generally speaking, I'd say you should treat people how they want to be treated, allow them to express their identity, and generally respect that they best know their own mind/identity unless you have a compelling reason not to.
 
Generally speaking, I'd say you should treat people how they want to be treated, allow them to express their identity, and generally respect that they best know their own mind/identity unless you have a compelling reason not to.

You really don't have anything but "it's vague and it's complicated" do you?

And to be clear I don't mean this (completely) as a negative but more and more this comes across as performative acceptance for the performative acceptive.

Has the act of tolerant just been reduced down to:

"Will you be tolerant. I will provide no further details."
"Yes."
 
You really don't have anything but "it's vague and it's complicated" do you?

And to be clear I don't mean this (completely) as a negative but more and more this comes across as performative acceptance for the performative acceptive.

Has the act of tolerant just been reduced down to:

"Will you be tolerant. I will provide no further details."
"Yes."

Seems to me that, at least by a certain moral code, tolerance ought to be the default unless there's a good reason not to be tolerant.

My question would be, is there any good reason to deny transgender people legitimacy?
 
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Generally speaking, I'd say you should treat people how they want to be treated, allow them to express their identity, and generally respect that they best know their own mind/identity unless you have a compelling reason not to.

So suppose I'm faced with a transwoman and a man. I decide I want to treat both of them the way they want to be treated. Other than pronouns, how would I then treat them differently? How does their differing genders translate into any other difference in my treatment of each of them?
 
Seems to me that, at least by a certain moral code, tolerance ought to be the default unless there's a good reason not to be.

And if "Listen I'll be tolerant, but none of this makes sense" isn't on the table what's the point?

Like more and more it seems like I'm just expected to lie and hit some "Pretend this makes sense" button and just go with it.

You can dress as the other sex and I won't care. You can use any bathroom you want, play in any sports league, and I'll call you whatever pronouns you want.

But if you tie me to a chair, wrap me up in Wonder Woman's Lasso, hook me up to a lie detector and inject me with truth serum I'm still gonna have to go "If you've got a dick you're a dude."

Where does that put me?
 
A desire to be included among members of the opposite sex, no matter how sincere, is not a valid justification for letting someone cross a sex-segregation boundary.


Agreed with the direction of your argument, thepresetige, but not with how far you've taken it. Like I'd said before (not to you, but addressed to someone else, so maybe you haven't seen that post of mine, it's a huge and fast-moving thread after all!): clearly the question of transwomen participating in sports with women is based on three arguements: of fairness, of inclusion, and of what would sell. Agreed, the inclusion argument cannot in and of itself end up deciding the question (of the validity of transwomen competing with women); but I disagree that the inclusion argument is completely worthless. That is, you personally may deem it such, sure, and that's fine, as a personal choice (just as someone that scorns capitalism might, speaking for themselves, similarly dismiss the what-might-sell argument); but that cannot wish away the argument itself.


The whole point of sex segregation in sports, the whole reason women's sports actually works, is because it's about separation, not inclusion.

A man's sincere desire to be included among the women, in sports (and other places sex segregation makes sense) suggests to me not an entitlement but a mental health issue.


But that's the whole trans question, isn't it. The trans believes that they belong to a separate gender than they were born with. And today's society, and today's science, gives to them the means to actualize that, to an extent. (Only to an extent. They cannot actually bear children, for instance. So far. But who knows, one day, maybe one not-very-distant day, maybe within our lifetime, we might find men who want to, transitioning not just to the outer trappings of womanhood, but even to its very core, which is the bearing of children.)

Regardless of whether that scenario might come to pass, the fact is that even today, men who believe they're "women at heart" can transition, to a large extent, into womanhood. Does that actually make them a woman? You're simply asserting that that is not the case. But that is not your decision alone, I'd imagine it is a decision for society to collectively arrive at.

So that your argument is circular. The idea is exclusion, sure, but the idea is to exclude men from women. And don't let's forget, that principle of segregation is a very much a social construct. If society deems that transwomen do pass as women, then while the principle of exclusion will remain, but that principle will not affect the inclusion of transwomen in women's categories, because they will be deemed to be women.

(For the record, me, I'm actually undecided on this. I've said this already, upthread, and I'll say this again, and I'll jazz up the font up on this a bit for emphasis when I say this, so that it gets through to you clearly: Me personally, I'm undecided on this question. Should there be a vote today on whether transwomen should pass by law in any and every way as women, then, basis where my understanding is as of today, and my position on the question at this point, I'd abstain from the vote. And yes, I will request you not to try to misrepresent my clearly enunciated personal position on this, as you'd done not long back upthread.)


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In fact I've been assuming it's about inclusion all along anyway. We can take trans folks at their word on this, and my conclusion doesn't change: Fiat self-ID is not a valid basis for transcending sex segregation.


Fair enough. You're entitled to your opinion, absolutely.

But whether or not this is actually valid, is not your decision to make. it's society's, as a whole. You can contribute towards the firming of the collective social view, sure, by voting against inclusion of transwomen in women's cateogories if you like, absolutely, maybe by even campaigning about this issue. But you're no position to pass verdict, one way or the other, about the actual validity of inclusion of transwomen in women's categories.

Me, I share your opinion around halfway: like I said, I think the inclusion argument isn't the only one, and nor is it overriding. That much I'm happy to go along with. And also, and like I said, should there be a vote today, then you won't find my vote going against yours; I'll simply abstain, as at this point.

As for the self-ID part, that's a technical detail. I'll pass, as far as commenting one way or the other on that technical detail. I haven't enough knowledge, understanding, data, to say anything meaningful, either in agreement or in disagreement, on specifically the self-ID part.
 
So suppose I'm faced with a transwoman and a man. I decide I want to treat both of them the way they want to be treated. Other than pronouns, how would I then treat them differently? How does their differing genders translate into any other difference in my treatment of each of them?

It depends, do you (or society more broadly) treat men and women differently? Not even saying preferentially, but different at all?

I mean, if you speak english then it seems like yes, because our language has gendered pronouns and other such gendered language. That's just one obvious example.
 
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And if "Listen I'll be tolerant, but none of this makes sense" isn't on the table what's the point?

Like more and more it seems like I'm just expected to lie and hit some "Pretend this makes sense" button and just go with it.

You can dress as the other sex and I won't care. You can use any bathroom you want, play in any sports league, and I'll call you whatever pronouns you want.

But if you tie me to a chair, wrap me up in Wonder Woman's Lasso, hook me up to a lie detector and inject me with truth serum I'm still gonna have to go "If you've got a dick you're a dude."

Where does that put me?

If a tree falls in the woods and nobody is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

Your inner monologue really isn't my business dude. Actions matter a lot more than your thoughts.
 
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