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If we don't, who does? I've been led to believe "language is usage," by the sort of folks who study it.We don't get to make that decision and the people who do don't seem to be too sympathetic.
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If we don't, who does? I've been led to believe "language is usage," by the sort of folks who study it.We don't get to make that decision and the people who do don't seem to be too sympathetic.
No.
I say let women decide.
They are screwed in Afghanistan, Iran and any number of other places. Let's not screw them in the west.
No.
I say let women decide.They are screwed in Afghanistan, Iran and any number of other places. Let's not screw them in the west.
Except they are not women. Women want their language back remember, that is one of their demands which I support 100%.
Are you under the impression that trans women are existential threat to cis women's rights? Are you at all aware of what is happening in the US?
It depends what you mean by “existential”, but women’s rights are being threatened and even extinguished in the US. The right to compete with, take shelter against male violence and serve prison time with people of their same sex are certainly threatened. You can’t seriously deny this.
Basic ***** healthcare. Bodily autonomy. Forced birth. Unprocessed rape kits. Sex trafficking..Are you even kidding me right now?
The "not as bad as" fallacy, also known as the fallacy of relative privation, asserts that:
1. If something is worse than the problem currently being discussed, then
2. The problem currently being discussed isn't that important at all.
3. In order for the statement "A is not as bad as B," to suggest a fallacy there must be a fallacious conclusion such as: ignore A.
In other words: nothing matters if it's not literally the worst thing happening.
No doubt the women who lose athletic awards and scholarships to male-bodied competitors will take some comfort from this mansplanation.There are real threats to women in the US. This right-wing moral panic isn’t one of them.
No doubt the women who lose athletic awards and scholarships to male-bodied competitors will take some comfort from this mansplanation.
Okay, allow me to rephrase: Are you under the impression that women losing athletic awards and scholarships to trans women competitors are a slippery slope for the west to slide into authoritarian regimes like in "Afghanistan, Iran and any number of other places"?
No, that's silly.Okay, allow me to rephrase: Are you under the impression that women losing athletic awards and scholarships to trans women competitors are a slippery slope for the west to slide into authoritarian regimes like in "Afghanistan, Iran and any number of other places"?
Great, we agree. Please don't mischaracterize what I'm saying by removing the context.No, that's silly.
Please don't make up slippery slopes if your interlocutors did not make slippery slope claims in the first place.Please don't mischaracterize what I'm saying by removing the context.
Please don't make up slippery slopes if your interlocutors did not make slippery slope claims in the first place.
You should consider reading the actual lines rather than between the lines.
Notice the lack of any slippery inclines here? Samson is not saying that taking away women's spaces and leagues will somehow lead to a regressive theocracy. They are saying that it would be nice to "let women decide" their own policies for their own spaces and leagues. At most, the comparison to Afghanistan and Iran is a metaphorical comparison, another place where righteous men deny women their own choices because of ideology.They are screwed in Afghanistan, Iran and any number of other places. Let's not screw them in the west.
That isn't even close to any position I hold.In that context, Upchurch's line of inquiry seems to answer that question thusly: "yes, because whatever harm to women arises from that policy, it is relatively unimportant to me and should be similarly unimportant to women."
Eddie Lizard is a poor example as he has clearly stated he sometimes want to be known as a he and other times as a she.
I am talking about fully transitioned trans women who 24 hours a day live their life as a woman.
I don't think it would be very polite to loudly and persistently refer to such a person as "sir". I would understand if some would consider such repeated behavior to be symptomatic of bigotry.
Personally I think if a transgender woman has long hair wear dresses wears makeup has a high-pitched voice really has worked very hard to act and be seen as a woman the polite thing to do is refer to them as a woman. Or at the very least simply refer to them by their chosen female name.
Is refusing to do such an example of bigotry? Possibly yes. Or at the very least you're an *******.
Like I said, it depends entirely on the situation, the individual, and the context. In most cases, I would be polite.
But I will not be bullied into compelled speech. I think it's rude to insist that anyone MUST use a person's bespoke pronouns in opposition to the commonly understood sex-based implication of those words.
Consider Alex Drummond. They "live as a woman" full time, meaning that they wear female-typical clothing, makeup, jewelry, etc. But they also take no hormones at all (and have no intention of doing so) and have a full beard.
Do you think I should be REQUIRED to refer to Drummond as "she" solely because they wear a dress?
And what about the opposite situation? What about a female who wears trousers and sneakers and no make-up and has short hair? Should I be REQUIRED to refer to them as "he"? What if they don't have a subjective internal gender identity of "man", and just a female who gives no ***** about fashion?