You really don't get it. I can't give you papers contradicting what you're saying for the same reason you can't give me papers supporting it (and I'm specifically talking about misdiagnosis of autistic kids as being trans). You don't understand that on a lot of topics, including this one, there IS no peer reviewed research. Nor is there likely to be any time soon. Nobody wants to do research on how often kids are misdiagnosed. That's not only really hard to do, it's also probably career suicide.
But what I will give you is an example of where I was able to go to the original sources including peer reviewed journal articles to examine the accuracy of a claim that was made.
http://www.internationalskeptics.com/forums/showthread.php?p=13746973#post13746973
One of the claims made by "experts" regarding trans therapy is that puberty blockers are fully reversible. In the linked post I dug into one such claim which cited several references in support of that claim. None of them actually supported the claim. Do any contradict that claim? No. Why? Because
nobody has done the research. Nobody has tested whether puberty blockers given as a treatment for gender dysphoria are fully reversible as claimed. Hell, nobody is even really tracking the long term health effects for kids who are put on blockers and then onto cross sex hormones (which is basically all of them) either. If you actually dig into this stuff, there's a shocking lack of any evidentiary basis for pretty much all of the medical interventions for minors. You don't need to be credentialed to figure this out, you just need to pay attention and do some digging.
Deference to "experts" isn't justified here, as multiple scandals such as Tavistock have shown.