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Transwomen are not women - X (XY?)

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For a bit more detail on the YMCA reference in the cartoon above, see this.

Trans-Identified Male Charged With Indecent Exposure After Using Women’s Changing Rooms At Ohio YMCA

17-year-old Rebecca Phillips teared up as she recounted her experience at the January 11 meeting, stating she had seen “a naked male in the women’s locker room.” She continued: “I immediately went back into the shower, terrified, and hid behind their flimsy excuse for a curtain, until he was gone. I ran into a bathroom stall to change as quickly as I could, organizing my thoughts to share with the people at the front desk. As I did so, I could only think of my five-year-old sister, who I bring to this gym during the summer.”

Phillips reported that she had brought her concerns up with YMCA staff, who told her the male had a right to be in the women’s facilities due to their policies on gender identity.


At least some action seems to be being taken against this creep, but that is far from always the case. Recently some of Will Thomas's swimming team have come out in public, saying that his behaviour in their changing room was pretty much the same as described in that article. One girl said that he was looking at her when she was almost naked, pulling down his own pants to expose himself. She said that when the girls had expressed their discomfort to the college authorites they were given contact details of counselling they could access to overcome their discomfort! The contact was the college's LGBT group.
 
Pretty sure it was you who posted it before, and were one of those who could not be raised when it was shown to be a manipulative user. I may tracknit down from a computer I am travelling now and cannot.


I don't remember. If you find anything, let us know.

Unless you have anything new to bring to the table here, this has been done to death before. No offence is intended.


"No offence was intended" is not a get-out clause when people continue to use an offensive term that they know is considered to be offensive. Women are not a subset of women, and do not require a qualifying prefix. It is offensive to imply that there is any other sort of woman other than women. I and many other women vehemently reject the concept that everyone has a gender identity, and find a term that implies that we must have one to be offensive.
 
Yes but you very freely pass out comments you know to be offensive to many so I recommend you drop this.

It seems to me that the fact of dissent itself is so offensive to the orthodox, that there is little point in my worrying which particular terms are offensive. No matter how much I clean up my language, I will be no less offensive in their eyes as long as I dissent.

In any case, I invite you to reason together with us, towards some sort of resolution of the conundrum of self-ID in public policy.

Do you think males should be entitled to enter sex-segregated spaces and categories for females, on the basis of self-ID alone? Why or why not?
 
Ahhh, I see you're blind - whether through ignorance or deliberate misdirection - to the views of the (plenty of) extremist bigots in this thread who refer to transwomen (always transwomen, rather than transmen...) as "men LARPing" or "men cosplaying" (and plenty of variants thereof, many of which clearly imply that transgender identity is a mental illness).

You've moved the goalpost. You made multiple claims. One of the claims was that people were denying the existence of trans people. If someone claims trans people are just "men cosplaying", well, that's a matter of the nature of trans people, and you can argue that this claim is wrong, but one thing it isn't is a claim that trans people don't exist. So your claim that anyone here has denied the existence of trans people is just wrong.

Because, you see, that is a fundamental denial of the validity of transgender identity.

But "validity" and "existence" aren't the same thing. And "validity" is just a bull **** term you invented for this discussion.

And once again, for the slow/denialist children at the back, "valid" in this context means that transgender identity is not now considered by mainstream medicine to be a mental health disorder. I've already pointed this out several times, so I'm surprised you haven't yet caught on*.

Oh, I've caught on. And I've pointed out multiple times (and you've never responded) that gender dysphoria very much IS still categorized as a mental health disorder. Furthermore, "transgender identity" in the absence of gender dysphoria is basically meaningless. It is, in fact, indistinguishable from "men LARPing". You may find that offensive, but you have no counter-argument to it.

Furthermore, if a man is just cosplaying as a woman, nobody is actually claiming that this is a mental health disorder. That's not the issue. The issue is, why does that deserve any accommodation? And this is one of the glaring inconsistencies in your own position. If a male has no mental health disorder, why does he need to be treated any differently than any other male? Mental health disorders are disabilities, and we as a society try to accommodate disabilities. But we don't have any obligation to accommodate preferences. Transgender identity in the absence of gender dysphoria is nothing more than a preference.

Erm, it appears to be you who's confused about the meaning of the term "Orwellian". You seem to be labouring under the misconception that it means "opaque and illogical".

Uh, no. "Orwellian" means language that denies reality. Being offensive or bigoted doesn't make something Orwellian. Language that describes ideas that you think are wrong isn't Orwellian. So TRA, TIM, and TERF, while offensive to some, are not Orwellian. If you want to find Orwellian language in this whole trans debate, you'll find it in expressions like "lady dick".

* Maybe if you take homosexuality as a comparator

You keep trying to force this analogy, but it won't work. Sexuality isn't comparable to transgender identity.

Prior to 1973, mainstream medicine considered homosexuality to be a mental health disorder.

So the "experts" aren't infallible. And it doesn't suffice to appeal to their judgment without arguing for a thing on its own merits.

Then, in 1973, mainstream medicine updated its position, no longer classifying homosexuality as a mental health disorder

Yes.

but instead concluding that it is a valid lived condition.

No. "valid lived condition" is your own bull **** term.

Transgender identity has gone through the exact same process in the expert medical community - from having been considered a mental health disorder, to (present-day) no longer being considered a mental health disorder (by the actual experts) - in other words, it's now considered a valid condition, just as homosexuality is now considered a valid condition.

Again, no. Gender dysphoria is very much still considered a mental disorder, because it obviously is.

And again, for "transgender identity" without dysphoria, that's just a preference, and we are under no obligation to accommodate preferences.

So, in 2023, people who still insist that transgender identity is a mental health disorder, or that transwomen are "LARPing men" and so on,

You treat these positions as if they're basically the same, when in fact they are mutually exclusive when applied to any specific individual. LARPing is a voluntary activity. It is a preference. It is not a disorder. If someone has a disorder (such as gender dysphoria) then they aren't just LARPing. But gender dysphoria very much is a mental disorder, a fact that you keep ignoring but can't actually deny.

is in the same invidious position as someone in 1975 who continued to insist that homosexuality was a sexual deviancy and a mental health disorder.

Again, no.

The position that gender dysphoria is a mental health disorder, aside from being obviously true, is also basically required by trans activists themselves. Want hormone treatment or surgery? You can't get insurance coverage for that UNLESS it's to treat a disorder. Categorizing it as a disorder isn't something that's being imposed on trans people against their will, it's something that they want.

And this is part of the fundamental problem with the comparison. Sexuality demands no accommodation from society. Homosexuals didn't need to demand anything except to be left alone. But that's diametrically opposite to what the TRA's are doing. If all they demanded was to be left alone, we wouldn't have this thread. But they aren't. They're demanding a lot more than that.

(I mean, I know it won't help, on account of your zealous and intransigent views on this topic, but perhaps that gives you a little more context as to the toxic nature of your position).

You can keep calling people toxic and bigoted, but nobody believes your accusations. They ring hollow, because you can't back them up. Your own positions are an incoherent mess of internal contradictions, avoidance, denial, and ad hominems.
 
* Maybe if you take homosexuality as a comparator, it might aid your understanding of what "valid" means.

Homosexulaity is more comparable to being left handed. You know, 10% of us sinister-handed people that were 'converted' in the past. Different, but not much accommodation needed. We all adapt.

Transgender persons with a feeling of being in a wrong body and a deep and constant desire to 'be' the opposite 'sex' are more akin to anorexics, another body identity disorder.
Or the BIID persons who who dont think other body parts belong to them, or want to amputate them, or the ones who don't even recognize themselves.
All disorders. All are actively seeking changes to what is otherwise a normal healthy human body.
 


Three and a half years ago. It is interesting to see how people's positions have changed in that time. Not Francesca's though. Apparently.

I see Francesca imposing her own interpretation* on a tweet which some people agreed with and some people didn't, and school-marmishly insisting that she had to be regarded as correct.

On that occasion there was some attempt to interrogate the tweet and find evidence to support one reading or the other, which seems to have been frustrated by someone setting their twitter account to private. This time we're all apparently supposed to genuflect to Francesca's assertion that "ripx4nutmeg", whoever she is, is dishonest and should be disbelieved on principle - apparently solely on the basis that Francesca decided her earlier tweet was dishonest.

I would point out that when another poster checked whether the text that had been added to Muscato's mirror-selfie (a few pages back) was legitimate, he found that it was. That text was "Some women have penises. If you're bothered by this, you can suck my dick." Maybe, just maybe, other creepy things attributed to Muscato are also true.

ETA: It's clear from a quick scroll through Muscato's twitter timeline that he is not well. Nevertheless women should not be subjected to this not-well man intruding on their single-sex spaces. He's just one of the limitless list of creeps, kooks, weirdos and perverts who are identifying themselves into places where they should not be.

*To be fair, I see that it was Cavemonster, who takes the position that nobody trans can do any wrong, who first came up with the suggestion of an alternative explanation for the "achievement unlocked" remark, but then Francesca ran with it.
 
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It seems to me that the fact of dissent itself is so offensive to the orthodox, that there is little point in my worrying which particular terms are offensive.
I agree. And that the whole thinking about claiming entitlement to non-offence is a "sticky wicket"

Do you think males should be entitled to enter sex-segregated spaces and categories for females, on the basis of self-ID alone? Why or why not?
No. Christ, I have done all that and am not rehashing it now. Maybe you weren't participating when I did
 
And the term "cis" is grossly offensive, it would be better to avoid using it.

I don't think there's a consensus among (natal) women that cis- is either offensive on non-offensive. I certainly know of natal women who use the term. I know of a few who find it awkward, but not offensive. And then at least a few of the women on this board consider it offensive.

So opinion varies.

But in these conversations there is utility in the term.

The discussion...the stated disagreement...is regarding whether transwomen are women. There are two groups in question: transwomen and natal women. Terms are needed for each (and natal is more awkward than cis).

One side of the argument sees both groups as subgroups of the higher level hierarchy of "women." the other does not. By insisting on the use of "women" you are essentially insisting that those on the other side cede the argument in order to discuss the issue with you.

If you would prefer a different term (other than the one under discussion), put one forward.

Also, "cis" as used here is not offensive in the way that "LARPing" or "TERF" are offensive as used here. Here, the term is used for distinction, not to intentionally denigrate the subject. "LARPing" and "TERF" are used specifically to imply negative characteristics to their targets. (On this one thing, London John is right, but he only sees it from one side and appears blind to the other.

For the record, I'll describe my current position:

Trans-women and natal women are not the same, and I would use the term women to mean natal women. But I don't think that puts trans-women into the group "men." I think both trans-women and women, in terms of gender, would be in a group described something like "having a feminine gender identity." Men and Trans-Men would be in a group of "having a masculine gender identity." Or something like that. The identities are all "valid lived experiences."

None of that, nor the definitions of disorders and conditions in the DSM, sheds any light on who should use what bathrooms, locker rooms or sports teams though.

There is a term that's often paired with "accommodation," and that's "reasonable." An employer does not have to accommodate every special need of an employee in a protected class, just those that are considered reasonable. The debate here should be not about validity of identity, in my opinion, but about what accommodations are reasonable and what are not. And there will be some that are not.
 
I see Francesca imposing her own interpretation* on a tweet which some people agreed with and some people didn't, and school-marmishly insisting that she had to be regarded as correct.

I read through all that, and I think that the interpretation put forth by Cavemonster and Francesca is consistent with how the term "Achievement Unlocked" is used elsewhere in pop culture. It's the same snark my gamer nephew would use the term for.
 
Even if you're right about that, it does not follow that "ripx4nutmeg" is dishonest - she seems quite genuinely not to have interpreted it that way and I would not have interpreted it that way either - and even less so does it follow that "ripx4nutmeg" is an account that should be assumed to be falsifying evidence in another tweet three and a half years later.

There is absolutely no evidence that "ripx4nutmeg" invented or falsified anything to do with Muscato, and every reason - from pretty much everything else we know about him - to give the material credence. As an example of someone who should not be allowed to put a foot over the threshhold of women's single-sex spaces, he still stands, and I'm surprised Francesca wants to defend him.
 
Even if you're right about that, it does not follow that "ripx4nutmeg" is dishonest - she seems quite genuinely not to have interpreted it that way and I would not have interpreted it that way either - and even less so does it follow that "ripx4nutmeg" is an account that should be assumed to be falsifying evidence in another tweet three and a half years later.

There is absolutely no evidence that "ripx4nutmeg" invented or falsified anything to do with Muscato, and every reason - from pretty much everything else we know about him - to give the material credence. As an example of someone who should not be allowed to put a foot over the threshhold of women's single-sex spaces, he still stands, and I'm surprised Francesca wants to defend him.

I didn't interpret Francesca as defending Muscato. I saw her simply not making a judgment based on information retrieved from a source she knows or believes to have misrepresented information in the past. (For the record, you may be familiar with Muscata. I am not.)

Reading through the old thread, the accusations regarding ripx4nutmeg were not merely that the misinterpretation of the phrase "achievement unlocked," but that three separate text messages were edited together which changed the context and apparent meanings of the poster she was retweeting. I can't verify this, but it was noted by two or three people who saw the original tweets before the account was locked.

Taking something out of context, even an offensive joke, can give a false impression of the person being quoted and their intentions.

ETA: the specific tween by ripx4nutmeg here quotes some post by another person accounting her experience with Muscata. But as far as I can see, it's a picture and doesn't link back to or give any reference to the original post. These things make it hard to verify. I also see photos of several public figures with quotes assigned to them. What is missing is any reference to where or when those quotes were made so that accuracy and context can be checked.

ripx4nutmeg appears to be a single topic political poster. That's the type of poster where I want to see the original.
 
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Muscato had already been mentioned in the thread a couple of pages earlier, and the information at that point was verified by another poster. I merely posted another example of his behaviour which happened to appear on my twitter feed.

Francesca seemed to me to be dismissing that out of hand on the basis that the ripx4nutmeg account had been comprehensively discredited as a source, by her, end of. On examination, we find that this traces to a discussion in mid 2019 in which Cavemonster disagreed with the interpretation ripx4nutmeg had put on an entirely different tweet. Francesca decided to agree with Cavemonster, fine, but she appeared also to be implying that ripx4nutmeg knew that Cavemonster's interpretation was the true one but had decided to misrepresent the situation maliciously.

I disagree. Indeed ripx4nutmeg's tweet was a compilation, but this appears to be by way of giving background information about the trans-identifying male who was tweeting about being in a female lavatory. Which seems quite legitimate to me. My position is that even if Cavemonster was correct about the interpretation of the quoted tweet, it's an unreasonable reach to conclude that ripx4nutmeg was being malicious or fabricating anything. I think her interpretation was reasonable even if it so happens it was mistaken.

To go from that (entirely forgotten on my part) exchange from three and a half years ago to jumping in and insisting that ripx4nutmeg is a discredited source on principle, no matter what she's talking about, is entirely unjustified. And you know what, a lot of women are tweeting about little else than the current trans controversy. We're outraged about Adam Graham and "Katie" Dolatowski and Andrew Burns and the rest of them, and seriously alarmed that our government is hell-bent on giving the entire boiling of them legal right of access to all women's single-sex spaces. So pardon us for tweeting about it.
 
If you've got some time to kill, check out Muscato's Twitter feed. Or don't and just say you did.From what I've seen over there I wouldn't doubt it that this best friend story is true.
 
Oh, I did. I mean it's obvious he's not well. There was an audio clip he posted saying that it was his father ranting and screaming at him for (I think) 45 minutes, but I only lasted a couple of minutes and that was all the lad himself talking at his father (parents?) and continually insisting he not be interrupted, "It's not your turn to speak". The thread about his mother buying the wrong brand of mayonnaise was pretty much beyond satire.

None of this would matter a button to anyone other than those who care about him (of whom I am certainly not one). Poor guy, pass by on the other side. However, he identifies as a woman. He goes into women's single-sex spaces. He says things like "you can suck my dick". He is just one more example of why women do not want any male person in our single-sex spaces.

The shy, considerate transsexual who was doing his absolute best to look and behave like a woman was the thin end of the wedge. Women weren't asked whether we consented even to have these blokes given the green light to come into our spaces, but we generally went with the #bekind exhortation even if sometimes we did beat a very hasty retreat when one of them came in. But still, there were very few of them and they were trying not to cause offence. Usually, anyway.

Now we discover that the habitual presence of these very few males of that specific type is being used as the Trojan horse to justify allowing any male who says the magic words legal access. This was the context in which Muscato was brought up. Francesca agrees that men should not be in women's single-sex spaces, but somehow, because she disagreed with one twitter account's interpretation of an entirely unrelated tweet three and a half years ago she's going to bat for Muscato.

Weird, is all I can say.
 
"No offence was intended" is not a get-out clause when people continue to use an offensive term that they know is considered to be offensive. Women are not a subset of women, and do not require a qualifying prefix. It is offensive to imply that there is any other sort of woman other than women. I and many other women vehemently reject the concept that everyone has a gender identity, and find a term that implies that we must have one to be offensive.

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I am proud to be a cisman, in the context of a discussion where it's useful to differentiate between cismen and transmen. Outside the context of a discussion where it's useful to make that differentiation, I'm perfectly happy to be called a man.

I am also proud to be a TIRP (trans-inclusionary regular person).
 
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