Rolfe
Adult human female
Want. Not need. For the good of progress all this can be taken away from you. If enough social change is thrown at it at the same time, you won't even be able to point to the bit that did the harm or gather the evidence to prove it. If it follows the normal path, in 20 years from now it will all be the new normal, and people will doubt that toilets and changing rooms were in fact any safer, if they were, perhaps it was due to the general decay in social order that happened for no reason, and put the whole thing down to bigotry.
Need.
Of course things we need can be taken away from us. It happens all the time. It doesn't mean they were mere "wants".