Rolfe
Adult human female
It's puzzling why the trans advocates are so vehement against recognising ROGD. Anyone who works with secondary school pupils can tell you it's a real thing. I know one of them myself and my neighbour who has a son in sixth form says he reports several in his year at school. (He actually said to his mother, "I think I'm the only person in the class who's actually straight.")
It seems to be related to the religious belief that gender identity is an innate part of the person and they always know they're trans (even the ones who transition in their sixties after being married and having several kids). If ROGD is a social contagion then the implication is that at least some people who insist that they're trans aren't "really trans", and we can't admit that.
It's the same thing as the resistance to talking about detransitioners. Someone was sure they were trans to the point of having hormones and surgery, then they realised they weren't. (Most of these people seem to fit the ROGD category, but not all.) The best they can come up with is "there are hardly any of them" (which is tricky because more are coming out of the woodwork all the time) and "they weren't really trans."
Well that last point is probably true, but as many of the detransitioners have said, they were really really convinced they were trans at the time. Nobody could have been more sure than they were. But acknowledging that some people who say they're trans, and really believe they're trans, turn out not to be "really trans" is very tricky, because the whole schtick relies on "believe the person is who they say they are, they are the experts, they know, and any attempt to get them to examine their feelings is evil conversion therapy."
If there are people who are not "really trans" who present in exactly the same way as the supposed "really trans" it's pretty awkward for the entire "affirm everyone as their true selves the moment they mention it" brigade.
It seems to be related to the religious belief that gender identity is an innate part of the person and they always know they're trans (even the ones who transition in their sixties after being married and having several kids). If ROGD is a social contagion then the implication is that at least some people who insist that they're trans aren't "really trans", and we can't admit that.
It's the same thing as the resistance to talking about detransitioners. Someone was sure they were trans to the point of having hormones and surgery, then they realised they weren't. (Most of these people seem to fit the ROGD category, but not all.) The best they can come up with is "there are hardly any of them" (which is tricky because more are coming out of the woodwork all the time) and "they weren't really trans."
Well that last point is probably true, but as many of the detransitioners have said, they were really really convinced they were trans at the time. Nobody could have been more sure than they were. But acknowledging that some people who say they're trans, and really believe they're trans, turn out not to be "really trans" is very tricky, because the whole schtick relies on "believe the person is who they say they are, they are the experts, they know, and any attempt to get them to examine their feelings is evil conversion therapy."
If there are people who are not "really trans" who present in exactly the same way as the supposed "really trans" it's pretty awkward for the entire "affirm everyone as their true selves the moment they mention it" brigade.