I think someone posted this a few days back, but I ony just got around to reading it:
Americans’ Support For LGBTQ Rights Often Stops With Transgender Rights
The author spends a fair amount of time pondering the confusing results of the survey, discussing the "opposing views" that so many people seem to hold.
This article makes a fundamental error: it fails to distinguish between gender identity and sex. The "counterpressure" that they focus on is not at all confusing. The vast majority of people support non-discrimination in employment, housing, and law for transgender people.
We support the right of transgender people to dress and present in congruence with their gender identity.
But a very large number of Americans ALSO recognize that gender identity does not subsume sex, and that sex-based accommodations are important and necessary to ensure the full participation of females in society, politics, and the economy.
The majority of people who oppose transgender people using intimate spaces in accordance with their gender identity are not at all "anti-trans". The opposition is simply because those spaces are SEX segregated, not gender segregated. In spaces where people are likely to be naked or particularly vulnerable, there is a strong desire to keep male-bodied people separate from female-bodied people, regardless of how they identify. The same is true for sports, where the physical differences between male and female athletic performance is significant.
What should be crystal clear from that survey is that Americans, on the whole, support the right of people to express themselves however they please, and support non-discrimination on the basis of gender identity... But that Americans ALSO understand that gender identity does not negate or replace sex in real life.