LondonJohn
Penultimate Amazing
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The extremists ARE setting the agenda! That's the problem. Your call to "be reasonable" is pointless, because those of us on the critical side of this discussion are already reasonable.
With only teensy variations, the critical side's position is:
- Dress, accessorize, and behave however makes you happy, we want no barriers at all for purely social aspects of presentation.
- To obtain *legal* recognition of the opposite sex requires:
- Diagnosis for persistent and unmitigatable dysphoria that is not caused by autogynephia
- Treatment for comorbid conditions that might be causing dysphoria as an effect rather than a cause
- Two years or so of therapy and counseling, which includes how to fit in with the opposite sex, respect their boundaries, and avoid causing problems
- Legal recognition should be a requirement for access to single-sex services... but those services still have the right to refuse if the presence of an opposite sex person would inhibit their ability to perform their primary objectives
- Access to some single-sex provisions may require genital surgery to access
It's a fairly common sense approach - do whatever you like when it comes to clothing and behavior, we don't care. But if you're entering single-sex spaces, there needs to be some respect and common sense involved. We might have varying degrees of understanding for what constitutes common sense in which situations, but I think all of us on the critical side are of the opinion that if people are naked in a single-sex space, then having the opposite sex genitalia visible is a big problem.
So at the end of the day, nobody in this thread is arguing for an "extremist" critical view.
On the other hand... the advocates are absolutely arguing for an extremist view of self-identification, no diagnosis or treatment, and access to all single-sex services on the basis of nothing more than magic words.
So don't pretend like you're occupying some eminently reasonable middle ground, and everyone else is an "extremist". It's insulting.
I see......
Would you like me to point you towards the many, many occasions within these threads when you, and several other "gender-critical" commentators here, have been a very long way indeed from "reasonable"? For example, the occasions when you and others have mocked the very concept of transgender identity (perhaps you prefer to forget the embarrassing "mew/miaow" pronoun stuff or whatever it was you precisely wrote)? Or the many occasions when some of your fellow travellers have attacked transgender identity as some sort of malevolent LARP exercise? Or the many occasions where you and others have deliberately engaged in "Reefer Madness"-style domesday soothsaying in an attempt to marginalise transgender people?
But yeah... you're the "reasonable" ones. Right.