Forced was the wrong word, indoctrinated possibly? Kids naturally follow the roles they are shown on tv and internet and everything else.
Well, up to a point. Unless we raise them in sensory deprivation chambers they are going to find something to copy and model themselves after. They still have innate differences between sexes though, so you will still be working with some basic boy-girl templates there.
What I'm a bit puzzled by is why, given that some tiny number of children don't follow the normal path of identifying with the appropriate gender, that the solution is to throw out the examples to follow for all the other children. I mean, they copy their parents in order to adapt themselves to the world they are going to have to live in. Hiding the markers along the path from all the children because some small number of them don't follow them seems perverse and harmful. It's not as if they will be born into a society where men and women are the same, so by raising them as if that wasn't the case, surely you are making them less prepared for the world?
The highlighted is a symptom of the societal problem I think, roles?
You want a society without roles? That is an insane utopian project that if it were to succeed would make the world immeasurably more confusing and difficult for everybody. Why would you want this? It's like aspiring for the Tower of Babel.
Maybe some people are so dislocated from the society that they have to make up their place in it from scratch. The solution to that is not to put everybody in that position. This is the cult of equality. Because some people are born blind, we don't poke everybody else's eyes out.
anyway Thankyou for telling me woman, I genuinely didn't know, I answered female cos that was the correct answer I thought.
The way you are understanding it was invented in the 1950s by John Money. He had some uncomfortable views on paedophilia, but his fame was based on the David Reimer case. This case where he supposedly helped a child who'd lost his penis in a botched circumcision by persuading his parents to let him do a sex change on the child. He glossed over a lot to claim it was a success, and his claims about gender being plastic and malleable rested pretty heavily on this case. There is a lot of very dodgy stuff about getting David and his brother to perform "sex play" on each other. The boy detransitioned, but Money carried on citing it as a success. The boy eventually killed himself.
Money's ideas about gender being a social construct were convenient for feminists in the 1970s as it fitted their philosophical beliefs about the world and were politically useful, so they picked it up and ran with it. Where it has gotten to is just that the weapon they helped forge is coming back to strike them on the back swing.