Hello ynot,
It's ok to challenge the currently accepted theories. After all, these theories themselves came about as challenges to the existing theories of the time. At the time they came about, though, they were seriously challenged by the scientific community. Other scientists developed competing theories, but they were eventually discarded. The theories we have now will stand until observations are made that reveal a shortcoming in the theories. But as long as these theories provide good explanations and predictions for observed phenomena, competing theories are going to have a very difficult time gaining acceptance.
Also, you seem to have some confusion as to what science is and why scientists believe the things they do. My advice to you is to go to a large bookstore and get yourself a *big* book on astronomy. Astronomy is more than a collection of what scientists believe, it is the story of how we have come to believe what we believe. Every important theory since the time of Copernicus and Galileo has met with serious challenges. Theories that replaced old ideas eventually got challenged by new theories and have now been forgotten. For example, there was once a great controversy as to whether 'planetary nebulae' were spiral-shaped clouds or actual star formations located far from our own galaxy. Now we all accept that other galaxies are very, very far away but there was a time when this was a radical idea. I know you think it is dogmatic when someone gives you a short answer to your questions, but read about astronomy and you'll see that all of these theories were heavily criticized before they eventually gained acceptance.