smartcooky
Penultimate Amazing
I think smartcooky is over egging the pudding. I think the response to these messages is neither here nor there in the larger context of what happened. I think smartcooky's earnest outrage over this point is gratuitous and comical.
There's enough not to like about these people, without having to flip out over these text messages. They bought the kid a gun, and he shot up a school on the their watch. Smartcooky here ranting about text messages like that's how we should judge them.
Observing how a family communicates gives you window on its level of dysfunctionality.