TurkeysGhost
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But you're still ignoring the big gorilla in the room.
You are right about communal showers. No one likes them. No one ever liked them. We grew up with them, but if we had been given a choice, we wouldn't have used them. (Although the coercion was pretty minimal. I can't recall anyone ever getting a detention for not showering. I know there were days when I didn't shower after gym class because I was running late or some variant. Exception: Badminton. If we played badminton, I was drenched with sweat and I wouldn't have cared if I was ten minutes late to my next class, where I had a test.)
But....unless you have individual stalls where you can dress and undress for gym class, and unless there is an enclosed space where you can take off all your clothes within the same enclosed space that holds the shower, but where the clothes remain dry, there is going to be circumstances where you are seen with less clothing than you would normally be seen in. You still have to walk to and from the shower. And forget the shower for a moment. You still have to change into gym clothes.
In the video that started the conversation where I said you were ignoring reality, there were no showers involved. In order to solve that problem with the "greater privacy" approach, you have to create individual changing stalls, quite independent of showering. And in that case, kids can't decide to opt out of showering, or opt out of changing clothes. You've moved the goalposts again. The video was of a girl describing her experiences changing clothes for gym class, and you switched over to showering.
The "greater privacy" option is no real option. It's either prohibitively expensive, or you lose a lot of time, or both. It's the "Let them eat cake" solution.
I example I cited with showers was simply demonstrating the point that personal privacy is absolutely a solution to this conflict. The unused showers are a clear example of students demonstrating a strong preference for personal privacy.
I imagine many students would opt not to strip naked in front of their peers if they had the option. When I was in high school students refusing to bring gym clothes to change into was a constant minor discipline issue, overcome only by the threat of failing the course. Nobody used the showers because it was not compulsory.
You can say it's not possible or unrealistic if you like. The story I cited explicitly mentions that private changing stalls were being installed. It costs money, sure, but it's probably cheaper than a sexual harassment lawsuit from the parent of a student who feels the school failed in their duty to provide a safe learning environment.
The school district managed to find a solution once trans exclusion was not longer an option (thanks to changes in state law).
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