I do get it. I'm not sure you understand.
You are valuing a potential person over that of actual person.
WHY does a fetus have rights over that of the woman?
I don't think you do get.
The women has rights, the fetus has rights, sometimes the conflict.
Some folks think a right to life tends to trump a right for someone else to not be burdened.
And again this is really about when a potential person becomes an actual person. Its not a debate if you think the potential person is an actual person right. I assume you think a 3 year old is a person. Would it be reasonable to ask a parent to sacrifice 9 months for a 3 year olds life? Now, try and image that you thought a fetus at 8 months is an actual person? A fetus at 7, 6......
Personally, I'm sure a recently inseminated ova is not a person, I'm certain a fetus about to crown is a person, I don't really know when that transition occurs so, I can empathize with folks who draw the line at different times than I do. I really wish I were as certain as some folks. It would make life easier, but then I'm a skeptic, certainty is a privilege I don't have.