Sure, it's possible, but all we have is 1.2 billion years of sexual reproduction on earth. Do we really think that any of that has anything to do with why actual people - not the species homo sapiens, but people like you and me - are attracted to someone?
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It's the blank slate phenomenon ( Steven Pinker, The Blank Slate), which ignores that we are animals and are part of the animal kingdom, all species in which have evolved, as if our brains are somehow exempt from the influence of that 1.2 billion years.
The underlying basis of gender identity ideology is rooted in denial of objective material reality. All phenomena are socially constructed and can be deconstructed by changing language.
Somewhere on twitter, somebody used the analogy that if the earth were going to be hit by an asteroid, you could solve the problem by redefining 'earth' as 'something that cannot be hit by asteroids' (or redefining an asteroid as something that cannot collide with a planet). Of course, this also means having to silence anyone who speaks the wrong narrative.