What do you mean 'evil gossip'? It is stated by several seamen that they were in their beds when they were able to get fully dressed and to climb out of the window (this indicates they knew there was trouble, no?) .
I’m not seeing your point here. The suggestion was that the crew’s behavior was somehow suspicious and indicative of foreknowledge of the accident. What you describe here sounds like people scrambling to react to an emergency in real time. That doesn’t suggest foreknowledge to me, just resourcefulness.
They also knew exactly which staircase to avoid - the passengers mostly made their way up the main centre staircase, which only leads to a large lobby. The crew and staff knew to head for the side stairs for the deck. One seaman said he was desperately trying to get downstairs to investigate but came up against hordes of passengers rushing up the stairs.
The crew knew their own ship better than the passengers. So what?
Then there is the issue of the nine Estonian crew members who appear to have been rescued by M/S Viking Mariella from a lifeboat. However, as the ship sank rapidly the witnesses said the lifeboats could not be launched or they would have crashed onto the deck being at a 40° list. Some passengers got into the life boats anyway, and presumably did not survive, as they were not actually launched.
Sounds like they got lucky. The Mariella rescued a total of twelve people from that lifeboat. Since you only mention nine crew, I guess that means the other three were passengers. Did those three passengers have foreknowledge, too?
One tenacious Swedish guy - tenacious in more ways than one! - clung onto an upturned lifeboat he chanced upon in the sea for over six hours until rescue. This poor chap had to witness his fellow clingers on drop away one by one, either from pounding waves, hypothermia or exhaustion. H was the only one left.
Yet the nine crew picked up in their life boat - everybody else had to rely on inflatable rafts and life jackets - vanished shortly after rescue.
I'll ask again what this actually means, and what your source for this is. According to the JAIC, all the survivors were admitted to hospitals on shore, and all of the crew were subsequently interviewed by authorities.
In addition, seaman Sillaste on several occasions, did draw for the benefit of the investigators and the press a drawing of how the car ramp looked from his life raft (or was it a life boat) and it was plainly up each time he drew it. Yet the report says it fell open with the bow visor dragging it down when it fell off.
Witnesses sometimes remember things differently from the way they actually happened. So what?
Another seaman, Silver Linde, was later jailed for nine years for drug smuggling, so clearly is not a person of good character or reliable witness.
Is there something important we're being asked to take Silver Linde's word on? Otherwise, how is this relevant? How is it anything other than evil gossip?
Given that at least some members of the crew would be privy to the fact of military vehicles on board ushered in under great secrecy then it becomes clear that all is not as it seems and is not at all 'evil gossip' for the families of the victims to understand how this impacted on the safety of their deceased loved ones.
This is not a given at all; it is very much in the realm of gossip. And yes, that goes for your bloke saying he’s retired MI6 and knew all about it.