Segnosaur
Penultimate Amazing
I guess the question is how you define 'confidant'. At least to me the definition has a certain amount of fuzziness.So, the answer is 'no'. What you saw from the brief bits you read is just that "a couple of extracts". I have read his book and he was more than just "a fixer". He lays it on the line: Trump is an out and out racist. There is no reason for him NOT to say he heard him use the N word if he had. And he doesn't. Your "highly probable" does not come anywhere near Cohen's ten years of being Trump's personal lawyer. Others would disagree with you that he was not Trump's 'confidant', but I suppose you could be right and they could all be wrong.
Trump did trust Cohen enough to reveal certain criminal activities to him.
But I don't think Trump would have ever considered him a 'friend' (I remember reading a story about how Cohen invited Trump to a relative's birthday and Trump blew him off.) It is possible that Trump compartmentalized what he would reveal to certain people, using the N-word around some people but not others.
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