dirtywick
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I don't know that the difference is material to the target.
On the one hand, yes, there are certainly malicious people who are manipulating information for their personal gain. Those people cause harm to their targets, because they care more about their benefit than they do about the effect on other people.
On the other hand, yes, there are certainely people who are genuinely offended (whether for themselves or on behalf of some archetype). Those people cause harm to their targets because they care more about voicing their opinions and being on the "right side" than they do about the effect on other people.
On the gripping hand... I rarely see any similar sort of grace being extended to the targets of such behavior. If there is a distinction being drawn between pile-on-ers who are genuinely offended and pile-on-ers who are doing it for their own gain... why is there not also a distinction to be drawn between people who express an opinion that intentionally hurts someone's feelings and someone who expresses an opinion that unintentionally hurts someone's feelings?
Let's add in a left foot here, just to round things out: Why is it acceptable that the targets, whether their expressions were intentionally hurtful or not, experience real harm - loss of livelihood, mental and emotional trauma from harassment, doxxing, threats, etc... But it is considered beyond the pale that some people might have their feelings rubbed wrong?
I think there is frequently a distinction drawn from unintentional and intentional offense. It seems to be a pretty common defense in fact.
I also don’t know where you get the impression that it’s beyond the pale that people get their feelings rubbed wrong. I’m not even sure I understand what that’s in reference to. Something I said?