After finishing an important project a bit early, I'm ending my self-imposed exile a couple of days before my original plan.
When a topic goes on and on for a long time, and the same things keep being said over and over, I try to take the habit of saying the same old thing, but in a different way. It's all really about trying to figure out the other people's position in more depth. How would they react to this or that? So, I'm going to take a different approach, at least for a bit.
I was one of the people who pressed for definitions for a while. Now I'm going to go to the other side. After all, as some recent posts of mine noted, definitions don't change reality. If I say that someone "is a man", what I am saying is that I have a particular definition of "man". What I say doesn't change the person one whit.
Therefore, I am going to adopt the approved newspeak definitions, at least for now, at this time and place. So....
Sex and gender are two different things. Sex refers to a person's reproductive biology. Gender is a social construction relating to behaviours and attributes based on labels of masculinity and femininity;
I will use "man", "woman", "masculine" and "feminine", in relation to gender. "Male" and "female" will be used in relation to sex. So, based on those definitions, the thread title doesn't work. Transwomen are women, by those definitions.
Ok. So, having done that, now what? What are the implications? If everyone were to adopt those definitions, would we need to change laws, policies, or behavior? If I want to have my actions and my policy recommendations consistent with my newly adopted definitions, would I have to advocate any change to the status quo?
At this point I will interject something. What I would really like is to engage in some sort of Socratic dialog where I ask a series of leading questions, or get asked those in turn, that eventually helps clarify a position or reveal a truth. Forums don't work all that well for that sort of thing, though. It can be made to work, but the people in the discussion have to agree to some rules, and I don't see that happening, so I will sometimes just ask questions, but if those questions are rhetorical, do something to give people a moment to think, and then provide my own answer. I'm also looking for other people's answers, but I won't wait for them.
Therefore, my answer to my question.
There is one very obvious step that ought to be taken if we, as a society, were to all adopt the definitions that I will be using in the thread, in which "man" is gender based, and "male" sex based.
For women's sports leagues, also girls' leagues, they should immediately be renamed "female" sports leagues. So instead of the WNBA, we should have the FNBA. There will be no girls' track team. There will be a females' track team.
This should be extremely obvious and non-controversial. The reason for the existence of the segregated leagues is the observation that merely being male conveys a very strong performance advantage in athletics. It doesn't make anyone "more athletic", but it gives some people of equal athleticism greater performance. i.e. given a male and female of equal relative physical fitness, the male will outperform the female. This advantage is a result of sex, not gender. Being a man does not make a person stronger, but being a male does. The advantage is so extreme that a very athletic female cannot generally win against a rather unimpressive male competitor.
By changing the names of the leagues to use "female", instead of "girls" or "women's" we will end the issue of misgendering completely. Transwomen will be able to compete against their fellow males without having to pretend to be men. Their valid gender identities can be affirmed by acknowledging who they really are. They are women, and male, so they can wear appropriate women's uniforms while competing in the male division. Problem solved.
Locker rooms are a bit more problematic, because there are a lot of social issues involved. It will surprise no one to hear that I also think locker rooms should be labelled and used by females and males instead of men and women, but I admit that in the case of locker rooms, there is considerable room for disagreement and the answer is not as obvious. I'll save the discussion for a future time. I'm hoping that if we can at least get agreement on the sports case, where the issues are rather clear and obvious, that it might help us at least spell out the issues more clearly on the changing room issue.