Emily's Cat
Rarely prone to hissy-fits
Any such balancing of interests has to be predicated in the idea that trans people are valid and that they cannot be discriminated against as a class, which is probably a non-starter for the large population of transphobes in our society. The religious right and TERFs reject such a notion outright.
TRans people are valid human beings, and they shouldn't be discriminated against on the basis of their gender identity.
That's not where the disagreement is. Literally nobody in this thread thinks that transgender people don't exist, nor that they *should* be discriminated against.
The disagreement is around when the segregation is and should be based on sex as opposed to gender identity.