Cont: [ED] Discussion: Trans Women are not Women (Part 5)

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That's not what we're saying. We're saying it should be legally binding. The whole point of making a legally binding statement is that you're indicating that you're so sure the statement is true that you're willing to dare the authorities to prove it false.

I'm pretty sure that's not what legally binding means.

I'm pretty sure that the whole point of making legally binding statements is to impose civil and criminal constraints on yourself and others. You don't dare the authorities to disprove it. You depend on the authorities to create a legal basis by which you can bind yourself and others.

You make a legally binding statement about your gender so that you can have the full force of the law on your side when someone misgenders you. That only happens when there's actually a provision in law for such bonds.

You can't just say, "I'm a woman, it's legally binding, prove me wrong!" That's not how legal bonds are made.
 
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Hate speech is never sound reasoning.

Well, yes, sometimes it is.

Furthermore, Rolfe's speech was not hate speech, unless there is some weird new definition of hate speech.


Or is that something to do with aporia apologetics, or something?


Ok, let me take a step back here. Welcome to the forum. It's easy enough to fit in, regardless of where your ideology stands. Let me catch you up on a thing of two.

Most of us here are pretty darned liberal. Even the Republicans are basically the liberatarian variety. Basically, hardly anyone here on ISF gives a hoot how you dress, who you have sex with, or even what pronouns you use.

So, our whole approach here isn't about pushing some sort of morality onto anyone else. Once in a while someone comes along to these fair shores and tries to push some religion, but it never works. Most of us aren't into that sort of thing.

On the other hand, we also don't buy into partisan agendas or ideologies. Some of us are pretty closely aligned, but we don't just echo a party line. We appreciate it when people thing for themselves and can explain the reason for their views, instead of just echoing some partisan talking points. If you happen to end up aligned with partisan talking points, that's ok, just be prepared to explain why, instead of citing a a party platform.

So, you have a guy like me who's pretty darned liberal, socially, but some years back, after being introduced to this topic, I decided that I would never force a woman, including a teenaged girl, to take off her clothes in front of a biological male. That includes forcing her to not use her locker room as that room was intended. i.e. No biological males in women's locker rooms. We can go into why not if you wish. It's been gone over and over many times, but that's ok. Each new perspective refines it a little bit and gives us a chance to deepen the explanations, and we can also talk about where there might be an exception. That's what a discussion board is for, so we don't mind explaining.

Many of us are also not keen on allowing biological males to compete in women's sports. Again, we can explain if you're interested. Its' what we do.

Other people have other areas where they aren't keen on allowing transwomen to be treated and accepted wholly as women, and different people have different levels of exceptions they are willing to make.


Other participants argue against those positions. That's fine. That's what we are here for. One line of argument is often. "I am a woman, therefore I should be able to participate in women's sports." Well, that's valid reasoning, but is it sound? To be sound, the premise has to be correct. So, "I am a woman" has to be justified. Is there a definition of "woman", which the person fits?

I grew up with a definition of "woman", which is "adult human female", and transwomen aren't that, so, obviously, there must be some other definition, but that's a really common point of discussion in these threads. I, and others who share some or all of my views, keep asking for definitions of woman which would include transwomen, and none are forthcoming.

So, some of what you are seeing is just references to common topics.

So, come on in, join in. Share your thoughts. I'm pretty sure we have seen something like them, but that's ok.

One final tip. Don't underestimate the crowd. There' some pretty smart folks here.
 
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Other participants argue against those positions. That's fine. That's what we are here for. One line of argument is often. "I am a woman, therefore I should be able to participate in women's sports." Well, that's valid reasoning, but is it sound? To be sound, the premise has to be correct. So, "I am a woman" has to be justified. Is there a definition of "woman", which the person fits?
Equally important is "Is that particular definition applicable to that particular situation?"

Hence it is possible to have the opinion that trans-women are women in regards to, for example, employment or bathrooms, but not for sports or locker rooms. Or perhaps another way to say the same thing is that Trans women are women in terms of gender, but some believe that there are contexts where things are (or should be) segregated by sex rather than gender.

Not meaning to hi-jack your post, Meadmaker, I just wanted to highlight that there are areas of nuance in the discussion.
 
Equally important is "Is that particular definition applicable to that particular situation?"

I would be satisfied to get a definition of "woman" that works in any situation, but that is not a circular definition. I've never gotten anything other than "adult human female", or some slight variation of "anyone who identifies as a woman".

The former is not accepted by the trans-rights activists, and the latter is meaningless.

I think that a lot of people are willing to treat transwomen as if they were women in many situations. Some people allow more situations than others, but the reason that the definition thing is actually important is that people claim that transwomen should be treated as women in any and all situations, and the only justification for doing so is that they "are" women.

Well, that requires a definition of "woman". I'm waiting for a response, but I'm not expecting one.
 
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In my opinion that is just a slight variation on "identifies as women", and I think it's flawed as well.

Another variation offered very early, I think in 2019, is "performs the female gender role." I can't see any difference in those definitions that isn't substantially the same as "acts like a woman". So, it's circular, and on top of that it doesn't distinguish between people who are "really" women, and people who just "act like" women.
 
The current push is that in order to be transgender, a person shouldn't need to present as their identified gender, nor should they need to undergo any treatment of any sort, right?

Obviously that's what the extremists claim in order to make fun of the idea. Do you have evidence of any actual liberal saying such a thing?
 
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Rolfe said "And don't come the "oh but what about the poor marginalised dysphoric darlings, would you make them pee and sleep in men's spaces?" I don't care. Find another solution for these remarkably indulged and accommodated marginalised (narcissistic, aggressive, demanding) individuals."

That most certainly is hate speech. I don't get why that isn't obvious?

Nobody should be forced to undress in front of anyone. Locker rooms as they're currently arranged, in which people walk around naked, are already a violation of human rights.

It's the same principle as getting rid of forced Christian prayer. First you allow something even more extreme (Satanic prayer), and then that gives authorities an incentive to outlaw them both.
 
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Apparently "aporia" is the term of art for self-contradictory premises, such as the Cretan who declares that all Cretans are liars. Which is kinda neat, in an It Pays to Increase Your Word Power kind of way.

By "aporia", I was referring to the stunt that Elaedith pulled in #1265.
 
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Rolfe said "And don't come the "oh but what about the poor marginalised dysphoric darlings, would you make them pee and sleep in men's spaces?" I don't care. Find another solution for these remarkably indulged and accommodated marginalised (narcissistic, aggressive, demanding) individuals."

That most certainly is hate speech. I don't get why that isn't obvious?

I will admit that among regular participants here, Rolfe is the most adamant in her opinions on the side of those opposed to trans rights activists. I think there;s a bit of context missing, and that context covers some years of discussion.

I don't think it's hate speech, but there might have to be some definitions involved to explain why. I'll return for a more complete answer later. Remind me if you don't see it within a day.

Nobody should be forced to undress in front of anyone. Locker rooms as they're currently arranged, in which people walk around naked, are already a violation of human rights.

It's the same principle as getting rid of forced Christian prayer. First you allow something even more extreme (Satanic prayer), and then that gives authorities an incentive to outlaw them both.

That subject is one that comes up occasionally as a sort of side reference. Based on what you wrote above, I'm guessing you are under 35 years old.

Here's an article on the subject. (I did some googling about locker room behavior. The computer I normally use is also one I use a lot when working with kids at the local high school. Because of the search terms I was using, I decided I had to use a different computer, just based on what might come up. However, the above article has no issues. It's perfectly tame, and has no pictures that would get you fired if they showed up on your work computer. It is, on the other hand, about people taking their clothes off in locker rooms.)

ETA: On second thought, Im going to use NSFW tags. It's marginal, but.....why take chances. There's no nudity, exactly, but one scene does involve people wearing towels, and a pixelated region on one individual. and...really, it's quite tame, but it isn't suitable at certain work venues.


 
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Obviously that's what the extremists claim in order to make fun of the idea. Do you have evidence of any actual liberal saying such a thing?

You really should read the the thread.

What happens if I find a an example of this? Will you admit you were wrong, and modify your position? Or will there be shenanigans?
 
You make a legally binding statement about your gender so that you can have the full force of the law on your side when someone misgenders you.

Are you implying that gender certificates would entail a language police? Jordan Peterson already sailed that ship, and the answer is it won't.
 
You really should read the the thread.

What happens if I find a an example of this? Will you admit you were wrong, and modify your position? Or will there be shenanigans?

If you go out and look for accusations against liberals, I'm sure you'll find whatever you're looking for on propaganda sites. So if you haven't already seen it, and all you have to offer is a promise to go searching for it, I probably won't be convinced.

If it happens, it'll be all over the news. It won't depend on someone "finding" it for me.
 
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Are you implying that gender certificates would entail a language police?
I'm implying that legally binding gender certificates would entail the literal police.

You try to get into a women's locker room. Someone blocks you. You present your certificate. They reject it. You call the police. Because you have the law on your side via legally-binding gender certificates.

You try to get into a women's locker room. Someone blocks you. You have no certificate. They call the police. Because they have the law on their side via legally-binding gender certificates.
 
If you go out and look for accusations against liberals, I'm sure you'll find whatever you're looking for on propaganda sites. So if you haven't already seen it, and all you have to offer is a promise to go searching for it, I probably won't be convinced.

If it happens, it'll be all over the news. It won't depend on someone "finding" it for me.

I'm pretty sure there's at least a couple examples in this thread. They're not in the news, but they are from what I'd consider "actual liberals".

I'm not asking you to be convinced by the possibility. I'm asking you if it's worth the effort for me to find an example of what you're talking about.

If I find an example of an "actual liberal" being quoted in a mainstream media outlet or government press release, will that suffice?
 
Everybody uses a bathroom. You're saying you're okay with TERFS "blowing up" (whatever that means) everyone who happens to be trans?

TERFS believe that all women are being persecuted by a demon called Patriarchy. In a democracy, such viewpoints are not supposed to be allowed to interfere with individual lives.

Please catch up on the thread.
 
I’m in favor of the actual goal of rape victims being able to choose which medical professional will examine them. I’m confident that it’s possible to have these conversations without all the drama. That is to say, I don’t believe all the drama is intrinsic to these situations. People are bringing it. I don’t honestly care who all are on the drama-bringing roll call. People need to knock it off. But people are terrible at knocking off the drama when they feel wronged, and a whole lot of people feel wronged.

Good summary. I agree.
 
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