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Cont: [ED] Discussion: Trans Women are not Women (Part 5)

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I'd like to start with your summary in your own words, if you don't mind. If you want to cite some references that support your position, that's fine too, as long as they're in support of and not in place of.


Nah, I do mind. Take that however you like - go do the heavy lifting for yourself. There's plenty of information available. Maybe kick off with DSM5 (together with an understanding of who compiled DSM5 and what they represent).

ETA: Also, it's going on 11.30pm here, and I have far better things to do with my time right now.
 
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A remote panic device is ok, I suppose. It can also be misused to her detriment though.

No woman (or parent of a young girl) wants a camera in a changing space. I thought that might be a bit obvious but maybe not.

The installation of security devices makes me think "danger!". If I am in a neighborhood where all the homes have bars on the windows, then I'm likely somewhere with high crime. It sends a message that things are NOT safe there that money would be spent on such things. Yes, I'd just take her home then.

Might be easier just to send a message to parents to stay with their kids and wait inside or just outside the 'girls' area. (depending on which parent). I must say that I was one of the only parents to actually do that but my kid was the youngest one (she is very tall and plays with the teens)

Also, they could have hours just for adults. Depends on how many pools they have and the difficulty of scheduling.


Did you actually read my post properly? I said that if security cameras are installed, they should only ever be accessed (and, for that matter, accessible) if an allegation of a deviant or criminal act as been reported, and only in pursuance of that allegation.

Your attitude is a little like that of airline pilots when cockpit voice recorders were first proposed. "The cockpit is a private space!", their unions howled. "We don't expect to be eavesdropped upon - it's an affront to our professionalism!". Yet CVR recordings are only ever heard if there's been a significant incident/accident involving the aircraft, and they've proven themselves invaluable over and over again in helping find out what happened and minimising the chance of it happening again.

Furthermore, as a parent, I might expect you to feel more comfortable in the knowledge that your daughter's gym's changing rooms were being monitored by CCTV (with the strict provisos that I've already outlined) - it would very likely make those changing rooms a significantly safer place for your daughter to change/shower. It's funny how would-be criminals/deviants decide against acting when they see a sign stating that those acts would be captured on CCTV......
 
I don't think that anyone is not aware that there's a good case to be made that females in spaces such as women's changing rooms might be at increased risk of harrassment or sex crimes from cismen choosing to masquerade as transwomen.

But....

If transgender people are to be afforded equal rights and protection against discrimination, then what are we to do with regard to matters such as access for transwomen to changing areas in sports centres.

The possibilities are (I think) as follows (including extremes, in order to be exhaustive)*:

1) Transwomen are not allowed to use sports centres.

2) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must arrive already wearing sports kit/swimming costume (under clothes), and must go home to shower or change afterwards.

3) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must use men's changing rooms.

4) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must use disabled changing rooms.

5) Transwomen can use sports centres, and can use women's changing rooms, but only upon provision of some sort of documentary proof of their transgender identity.

6) Transwomen can use sports centres, and can use women's changing rooms without being required to show documentary proof of their transgender identity.


Now, I'd hope anyone could agree that options (1)-(4) are non-starters. So we're left with (5) or (6). Is (5) actually workable in practice? I suspect not**. And if that's the case, then all we have is (6).

I have a core concept sort of question.

Why do you believe that transwomen should be using the women's restroom as opposed to the men's? That is, why are you assuming that Item (3) in your list should just be tossed as a reasonable possibility?
 
Oh, well it's my belief that if (for example) a 15-year-old boy committed suicide, and left a note saying that he was desperate to transition to a woman but that his wish had repeatedly been rebuffed by the medical specialists in the field (and that he had no desire to live any longer as a result)... and subsequent investigation of medical files essentially confirmed this as accurate.... then the medical authorities absolutely would find themselves under scrutiny. But you think otherwise.

Yes, I do think otherwise. Just as I would if a 15-yo boy left a note saying that he was desperate to amputate his legs and transition to a disabled person, and had been repeatedly rebuffed by the medical field. And just as I would if a 15-yo boy left a note saying that he was desperate to sleep with Sally next door, and was repeatedly rebuffed by her and so was offing himself.

One may express a very strong desire to be the opposite sex... but if there are additional considerations (such as other mental health disorders or autism) transition may very well not be the appropriate treatment. At a minimum, it might be considered appropriate only after those other conditions are controlled for and properly addressed.
 
Did you actually read my post properly? I said that if security cameras are installed, they should only ever be accessed (and, for that matter, accessible) if an allegation of a deviant or criminal act as been reported, and only in pursuance of that allegation.

Your attitude is a little like that of airline pilots when cockpit voice recorders were first proposed. "The cockpit is a private space!", their unions howled. "We don't expect to be eavesdropped upon - it's an affront to our professionalism!". Yet CVR recordings are only ever heard if there's been a significant incident/accident involving the aircraft, and they've proven themselves invaluable over and over again in helping find out what happened and minimising the chance of it happening again.

Furthermore, as a parent, I might expect you to feel more comfortable in the knowledge that your daughter's gym's changing rooms were being monitored by CCTV (with the strict provisos that I've already outlined) - it would very likely make those changing rooms a significantly safer place for your daughter to change/shower. It's funny how would-be criminals/deviants decide against acting when they see a sign stating that those acts would be captured on CCTV......


Are airline pilots naked and does anyone care what they say most of the time? No.

Is there a market for voyeurs of naked girls/women in private spaces? Yes!
Do I trust the people that install or run the cameras? No. Do I trust that this would not be hacked or misused? Nope.

No one needs any video of my daughter showering or changing. All the rules in the world aren't enough.
 
Well, you're either asking this as a deliberate attempt to masquerade as some sort of ingénue.... or you're asking this sincerely owing to a genuine ignorance of the subject.

Either way, the best (most) I can do is point you towards the wealth of academic, medical and legislative material which explains it far more eloquently, and far more exhaustively, than I could ever do. Let me know if you'd like some links.

This isn't an answer, it's a dodge.

In your personal opinion, why should transwomen be assumed to use the women's restroom, and why should the men's room be a non-starter? What is your reasoning for why this should be?
 
Nah, I do mind. Take that however you like - go do the heavy lifting for yourself. There's plenty of information available. Maybe kick off with DSM5 (together with an understanding of who compiled DSM5 and what they represent).

ETA: Also, it's going on 11.30pm here, and I have far better things to do with my time right now.

The DSM doesn't have any information with respect to locker room usage. Nor does it suggest in any fashion that transwomen are women in any meaningful way. DSM5 identifies a specific mental health condition in which a person experiences a profound sense of disconnection and unhappiness with their sexed body, and a desire to have the body of the opposite sex.

So again, your response isn't an answer, it's a dodge.

You appear to be appealing to a hypothetical authority in order to back-up your assertion that transwomen using the men's locker room is just not even a consideration.
 
Did you actually read my post properly? I said that if security cameras are installed, they should only ever be accessed (and, for that matter, accessible) if an allegation of a deviant or criminal act as been reported, and only in pursuance of that allegation.

There's a lot of "should" in many of your arguments, John. For example, there's a subtextual assumption that only genuinely dysphoric transwomem *should* use the ladies room and that other non-dysphoric males *shouldn't*.

Saying that the security cameras of naked females *should* only be accessed when there's an allegation seems to dismiss the very real probability that they *will* be accessed by people who want to look at naked females without the consent of those females.
 
If transgender people are to be afforded equal rights and protection against discrimination, then what are we to do with regard to matters such as access for transwomen to changing areas in sports centres.

The possibilities are (I think) as follows (including extremes, in order to be exhaustive)*:

1) Transwomen are not allowed to use sports centres.

2) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must arrive already wearing sports kit/swimming costume (under clothes), and must go home to shower or change afterwards.

3) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must use men's changing rooms.

4) Transwomen can use sports centres, but must use disabled changing rooms.

5) Transwomen can use sports centres, and can use women's changing rooms, but only upon provision of some sort of documentary proof of their transgender identity.

6) Transwomen can use sports centres, and can use women's changing rooms without being required to show documentary proof of their transgender identity.


Now, I'd hope anyone could agree that options (1)-(4) are non-starters. So we're left with (5) or (6). Is (5) actually workable in practice? I suspect not**. And if that's the case, then all we have is (6).
I'll try to address this quickly, first.

Regarding (5), if you accept that there are spaces in which certain demographics are allowed and certain others are not, then you also accept that there are criteria that places someone into one or the other. The very existence of a criteria requires some means of evaluating whether those criteria are met. Which also means that any individual entering those spaces is subject to challenge.

It is, of course, true that this would result in some who meet the criteria being challenged and others who do not meet the criteria not being challenged. It is not perfect, but it is workable. But some women (both cis and trans) would end up being offended and/or embarrassed.
However, I'd suggest that if (6) is indeed implemented as part of future transgender recognition legislation and guidance, two things are likely to happen: firstly, there should be a required standard of safety provisioning within all women's changing areas - perhaps including multiple panic/assistance buttons, and even perhaps constant CCTV monitoring (which would/could only ever be accessed and viewed if a criminal/deviant act was reported, but whose presence would be clearly posted in order to act as a deterrent);
The highlighted is a non-starter. Most restrooms and changing rooms are not at government facilities. They are in privately owned bars, health clubs, restaurants, shops, etc. You are expecting people to trust an honor system that the owners, managers, and employees are not accessing the video feeds or files. Yes, it might deter violence, but creates a state mandated infrastructure for voyeurism.

and secondly, there should be a close monitoring of just how many actual acts of deviancy or sex crimes were taking place under a self-ID-transwoman regime - and if acts of this nature were seen to be becoming a genuine safety issue to females, it might then become necessary to revise or even reverse certain parts of legislation accordingly.
This is interesting.

It's been my belief regarding well written regulation is that it is examined for possible loopholes before it is enacted. Yet here you are arguing that a known loophole should not be addressed until after the rule is enacted, and then only if enough people take advantage of it.

That seems like a bad way of writing policy for any issue.

I don't see an obvious solution, which is why I find these threads interesting.

As long as we are teaching girls that getting undressed in front of the opposite sex/gender (circle one) is bad/dangerous (circle one) you shouldn't be surprised when they are uncomfortable disrobing in the presence of individuals who to their perception is that opposite.

Nor is it fair to punish or criticise them for feeling uncomfortable violating the social norms that we still continue to teach. (And neither side is advocating that these norms go away. If they were, they would be advocating for gender/sex neutral spaces rather than gendered.)
 
Yes, but a little while ago in these threads I argued that this was, in principle, analogous to this (as might have been said in '50s Southern USA):

"Allowing black people to share bus seats with white people could allow male black perverts with ill intentions to sit right up next to my (white) wife or teenage daughter and commit acts of sexual deviancy"

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I really don't agree at all. That's quite a stretch.

And again, I'm talking about people's concerns regarding cismen pretending to be trans and sneaking in, under self-ID policies, so there's really no parallel to what you said at all.

Plus, I was merely using it as an example of arguments other people in the thread were having, so I'm not doing this. I've lost interest in discussing this subject with anyone besides my trans ex (when she wants to discuss it, obviously), at least for the time being. People not reading my posts and skimming them for key words drives me crazy.
 
Natalie Wynn has a new video about the J.K. Rowling controversy. Whether you agree with her or not, I think she deals with it fairly and without any unnecessary name-calling.



(Natalie is a fairly influential transgender YouTuber.)
 
Natalie Wynn has a new video about the J.K. Rowling controversy. Whether you agree with her or not, I think she deals with it fairly and without any unnecessary name-calling.



(Natalie is a fairly influential transgender YouTuber.)

An hour and a half?
 
An hour and a half?

Yes, I'm afraid so. I'm still only 16 minutes into it, I confess. You don't have to watch it all at once (or any of it; I only posted it for those who might be interested and who actually have some free time; I watch a lot of YouTube these days anyway, and I enjoy her content).
 
Yes, I'm afraid so. I'm still only 16 minutes into it, I confess. You don't have to watch it all at once (or any of it; I only posted it for those who might be interested and who actually have some free time; I watch a lot of YouTube these days anyway, and I enjoy her content).

The first thirty seconds looked amusing enough, but if I post any content to a discussion board that is longer than a couple of minutes, I always tell people what's significant about it and/or tell them where to skip to to see the important part of the video.
 
If transgender people are to be afforded equal rights and protection against discrimination

Equal to whom? Excluding trans women from women's bathrooms makes them equal to men. Including them in women's bathrooms makes them equal to women. It's always equal, in some form, or at least as equal as it is for cisgender people. Equality isn't really what's at stake here. It may be for other questions such as employment discrimination, but nobody here is pushing back against protections on those fronts.
 
Exactly. Transwomen should not be discriminated against on account of their trans status. They should have absolutely every and all rights that other men enjoy. It's not discriminating against a male to deny him inclusion in a class to which he does not belong, or if it is, it is correct and proper discrimination, exactly the sort of discrimination single-sex provisions are intended to produce.
 
No. I'm not saying that the medical services in that example would necessarily be found at fault (that's your *interesting* inference, not mine). What I'm saying is that they would without doubt face questions as to whether they'd acted appropriately or not. Hope this helps.

It's not that interesting. Previously you had suggested they could be held liable - i.e., found at fault:

Yes, I am aware. I was illustrating how, from a clinic's ex ante position for any given patient, it could potentially be held liable at some point in the future whether it does intervene or it doesn't intervene. I was hoping that was clear.

I understand if you're backing away from that claim. Just, please don't complain that I remembered what the claim actually was.
 
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