Meadmaker
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My apologies. I wrongly used you as an example of a broader argument. That was unfair of me and I retract it.
But to take it down to brass tacks is it fair that in general (and this is distinct from how much any one person is willing to compromise on it) is safe to say that a general disagreement both over "safety (and related concepts such as comfort)" versus "accessibility" as well as which should be the default and who gets to make that determination is a core part of this disagreement?
I know it wasn't addressed to me, but I'm not sure "accessibility" is really the core issue. I think it's recognition. When a transwoman wants access to a female locker room, I think there are a couple of important goals. First, she wants to be safe, in that she might fear assault in a male locker room. Another thing that she might want is recognition that she truly is a woman.
For what it's worth, if I go back to when I first became of aware of the debate, 10-15 years ago, I was more sympathetic to the trans side, because I think the fear of assault was more legitimate. I think as a society, we have generally stopped accepting any level of the sort of casual violence that was much more common back when many of us were young,
I think the "recognition" aspect has become more prominent in recent years. The person seeking access to an opposite sex locker room, bathroom, or even athletic competition wants to be perceived as a person of the opposite sex They can race with the boys, or they can race with the girls. The fact that they can win against the girls may in some cases be part of an incentive, but I think that an even bigger part of that incentive is that if they are forced to race with the boys, it means that society doesn't truly accept them as a girl, and apparently that's important.
(And...they're right. Society doesn't truly accept them as girls.)