A: "I feel like I'm better off now than I was 4 years ago."
B: "But you aren't better off! Look at the political violence in this country! Look at the fact that Trump ignores science! No way you are better off, you just feel that way."
A: "Uh . . . yeah, I do feel that way because I'm making more money AND I get to work from home, my 401k is better than it's ever been, my taxes are lower, I got a bunch of free money, I'm spending more time with the kids . . . I'm definitely happier than I was.
I haven't been affected by political violence and I don't care what Trump says, I follow the science for me and my family."
B: "Nuh-uh! You just don't know how bad you have it."
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You can make a good argument that the country, by objective measures, isn't better off than 4 years ago. Fine. You can't argue, however, against the fact that some people are indeed better off than they were and that they are allowed to feel that way despite whatever is happening in the country as a whole. Now, maybe you can argue that they are being selfish by not looking at the country as a whole. Whatever. When they get in the voting booth, your feelings are not going to change a damn thing; their subjective feelings trump everything.