Meadmaker
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Let's perhaps try another analogy
Suppose you and all your friends are Chicago Bears fans. And let's say that the analogue of "sex" is "residence/birthplace", and the analogue of "gender" is "which football team you support".
So if someone (let's call him Bob) is born and raised in Chicago (= "sex"), the high likelihood is that this person will be a fan of the Chicago Bears (= "gender"). The person's birthright is a fixed, factual, immutable truth; while the fandom of the football team is a social condition, a lived experience, and so on.
Now let's take another person: Charlie. Charlie was born and raised in Baltimore. So the automatic presumption is that he will be a Baltimore Ravens fan (as are all of his friends). But Charlie doesn't feel like it's right for him to support the Ravens. He much prefers the football played by the Bears, to the extent that he identifies as a Bears fan.
So Charlie starts travelling to Bears games. He sits in the stands, among the other Bears fans - most of whom will have been born and raised in Chicago.
And the pertinent question is this: is Bob's lived experience of being a Bears fan in any way compromised/de-legitimised/diluted by the fact that sitting next to him in the stand, cheering for the Bears, is Charlie?
So, I think we can conclude that being a Detroit Lions fan is a mental disorder.
Or maybe I missed something.
Ok, somewhat more seriously. The definitive characteristic of being a Bears fan is rooting for the Bears. Therefore, there is no trouble at all with being a Ravens fan, and then being a Bears fan. There's no trouble at all with being born in Baltimore, but rooting for the Bears. While there might be a strong correlation between living in Chicago and being a Bears fan, living in Chicago is not a definitive characteristic of being a Bears fan.
Let's compare that to being a woman.
The definitive characteristic of being a woman is........uhh....right, then. This might be trickier than I thought.