Can you cite the post where you decided I felt personally attacked?
By all means. This is from your message #16, on the very first page of the thread:
This thread is sincere, but I also was curious if I could talk about it without notes of ridicule arising. It didn’t take long. [... snip ...] (Useless according to another poster, and if I think therapy ever helped me, I must be deluded, but that’s a given anyway
My highlight. Nobody was actually ridiculing anything at that point, nor saying anyone is delusional. And it was in answer to Thermal, who seemed to be actually quite serious about I Ching as a tool to focus your thoughts.
So yes, it was you who jumped straight to feeling personally called deluded when nobody was doing so.
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Edited further response to original rule breach and response
I'm sorry if the crack about eyesight offended you, it was snarky. But you persisted in ignoring at least 4 key posts:
- My original link to the Forbes story.
Which still isn't a refutation to what I was actually saying. Not the least because the only part that was actually including a (broken) link to a study, wasn't even talking about depression, but about schizophrenia. Which is a completely different dish. Nor even about imaging the areas which would be more relevant to depression. So it wasn't even remotely addressing what you were contesting, even if I'm to be as generous as I can possibly be with what counts as evidence.
So yeah, boo-hoo, there must be something wrong about my eyesight or my beliefs if I don't let you move the goalposts
- Another poster, an atheist, saying you shared the burden of proof.
Appeal to false authority much? Since when does someone's being an atheist make one an expert on anything?
- A meta-study linked to by another poster.
Which is why I said that OTHER people may have tried to meet that burden of proof, but YOU didn't. So, sorry, YOU're not in a position to say that I'm having eyesight problems if I don't just accept whatever irrelevant stuff your googling turned up.
That said, I did ask them how that was tested against placebo effect, far as I noticed, I got no answer. I'm willing to be educated, but it means just that. I'm not under any obligation to accept an answer that wasn't actually given.
- A nurse with a lot of of psych experience, also atheist, who said therapy did help some people.
Again, being an atheist isn't some kind of psych qualification.
And appeal to authority is a fallacy in any case in formal logic, but even in informal logic it is only as relevant as how much of an authority they are and what they are actually saying. With all due respect to their work and profession and all, "a nurse believes X" is hardly definitive proof of anything.
I mean I knew a (medical) doctor who believed in straight-up magic and fortunetelling, but that's no reason to take it as ok, it's been proven, magic is real if a doctor says so.
I am willing to read any actual information that they post in support of that belief, and even trust their judgment in selecting that information as relevant. But until that happens, I have no obligation to believe anything just on someone's word for it. Someone just saying it's so is NOT evidence.
It sure looked like you were ignoring any posts that did not support your claim. I had not talked about therapy until you stated it was useless.
It had been already mentioned, and explicitly the connection to using it as a substitute for therapy in messages #4 and #5 before I even first clicked on the thread at all. And believe it or not, not all answers in the thread are to you or about you. I can jolly well answer to what other people are saying.
Incidentally, from Wikipedia:
Of course, it's Wikipedia, but there are cites. I din't bring up the subject of the usefulness of therapy. And even if I could potentially win on a technicality, I'd still want to post my evidence, to compare positions head to head. I learn more that way; it makes the discussion more illuminating. But that's just me. Always wanting to understand things. How silly of me!
Even down the same page it has a section with a huge title called "
Proving a negative". Which tells you exactly what I've been saying, namely that it's impossible to prove that something never ever happened. Even if I could dissect the brain of every single human currently alive to see if talking altered their serotonin levels, it still wouldn't disprove that maybe, say, some guy in 200 BC in China was cured of depression by talking to a priest. Yet that kind of proving a negative is exactly what you've been demanding.
But even if you understood the very first praragraph on that page, it tells youit's shortened from "
Onus probandi incumbit ei qui dicit, non ei qui negat", i.e.,
the burden of proof belongs to the one who affirms, not the one who denies. Or that when it talks about sufficient evidence to warrant a position, different positions need different amounts of evidence to be warranted. Not believing that a flying pig exists doesn't in fact need any more evidence than not having evidence that it does exist.
But, yes, there are better sources than Wikipedia. E.g., without even getting into the more serious philosophy pages, there's this one:
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Burden_of_proof
Which tells you point blank, "The person claiming something is possible or has happened needs to produce evidence to refute the null hypothesis."