
I feel like you're tap-dancing around here Squeegee. Of course the behaviors aren't shared by 100% of women. But expected behaviors do actually exist, and those expected behaviors are actually a material barrier to women when it comes to executive and leadership roles, including politics. There most certainly exists a "template" of model feminine behavior, and of course not all women fit the template exactly. I certainly don't. But you seem to be implying that there is no persistent difference in clothing standards and styles for women as opposed to men, that there's no difference in hair styles, make-up, and other visible forms of presentation, that there's no difference in behavior and comport between feminine and masculine.
I notice you've also, once again, failed to provide any answer to my question.
The initiating comment was to the effect that "some transwomen don't want to pass as women".
You seem to think that makes sense, so please go ahead and educate me. I've already admitted that this is something I don't understand. So if there's some explanation for this that you think is meaningful, that allows a person born male to identify as a woman while still continuing the lived experience of a man... please fill me in. I can't wrap my head around it as a concept at all. If you understand it better than I, please share that knowledge.