Can I just check peoples thinking here? From whatever side of the racist argument you stand, could you confirm whether you are of the opinion that Arbery was going to be shot even if he hadn't have made an attempt to wrest the shot gun from McMichael?
I ask because that seems to be a bit of a creeping narrative?
It's hard to believe that they planned to kill anybody. But they clearly thought they were catching a criminal, and I suspect they might have been thinking "just gimme an excuse."
Here's an alternative scenario: Suppose the son had left his shotgun in the truck and just asked Arbery "Could I please talk to you?" His father was standing watch with his handgun in the truck. Pointing a shotgun in somebody's face is not the way most civil conversations start.