No.
I don't think that was an honest question.
I think you understand completely whether or not we would be better off, and I also think you understand why comparisons between nations are not, in the grand scheme of things, relevant, because in the end, it's an apples and oranges comparison. Not only are there differences in absolute population, but differences in lifestyles, population density, and ability to accurately report data all play a role.
However, despite all that, people are interested, and it helps people understand the real situation. Two weeks ago, when Trump addressed the nation, people could say, "See, we have this small problem, unlike Italy. They should have kept the Chinese out like we did." Now, though, they have to say, "Well, their problem is still bigger than ours if you take into account population density."
So, I think you knew all that, but you asked a question about whether we would be better off. I don't think you actually wanted any information, either about the situation, or even about my own attitude toward it. I think you already had all the information you needed about both things.
That's why I don't think your question was honest.
On the other hand, my answer was honest, but incomplete. No. It really isn't significant in terms of direct public health outcome or well being. However, it could be psychologically significant, in laying out the case for why we really ought to be taking steps to keep the death rate down. It's exploding so fast that we have become the number one growth spot for this disease. That's something that will motivate people somehow better than talking about the statistics. Daily growth of 20% or more doesn't really mean a lot to a largely innumerate society, but more cases than any other country does.
Ironic, isn't it? The first is actually more informative than the second.