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Well, you may be a little optimistic if you think that'll stop the "it's unfair if I don't get a lollipop" gang. But more power to you if you manage to convince any of them.

Particularly in light of the "participation trophy" world, I wonder if that may lead to an answer.

Allow trans-woman to compete with women, but put them in a different prize stream. i.e. medals/prizes for the first three women, and medals/prizes for the first three trans-women.

Within sports like golf, these prizes could even be separately funded by advertisers etc.

Just a thought.
 
Particularly in light of the "participation trophy" world, I wonder if that may lead to an answer.



Allow trans-woman to compete with women, but put them in a different prize stream. i.e. medals/prizes for the first three women, and medals/prizes for the first three trans-women.



Within sports like golf, these prizes could even be separately funded by advertisers etc.



Just a thought.
Seems like you'd still be dicking over actual women, though.

"Congratulations! You finished seventh overall, but here's your gold medal for first finisher in the not-actually-a-man category!"

And of course you'd be dicking over transwomen, too.

"Congratulations! Here's your gold medal in the not-actually-a-woman category!". Remember: Transgenders aren't actually interested in being genderfluid intersex entities.
 
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"Congratulations! You finished seventh overall, but here's your gold medal for first finisher in the ciswoman category!"

And

"Congratulations! Here's your gold medal in the transwoman category!"

Seem fine to me if the alternatives are “ciswomen and transwomen can’t play together” or “ciswomen can’t win basically ever.”

Ty folks for discussing handicaps as well. I agree that some sports would be tough or impossible to brute fairness into, but I still think all the straight timed/weighted/point performance type sports would be doable. Subtract the record cis female performance from the record cis male performance for a starting point and work from there. I don’t actually mind if it ends up being too hard on trans athletes because I don’t even really care if they get a perfectly fair shake so much as I want them to get to play.
 
"Congratulations! You finished seventh overall, but here's your gold medal for first finisher in the ciswoman category!"

And

"Congratulations! Here's your gold medal in the transwoman category!"

Seem fine to me if the alternatives are “ciswomen and transwomen can’t play together” or “ciswomen can’t win basically ever.”

Ty folks for discussing handicaps as well. I agree that some sports would be tough or impossible to brute fairness into, but I still think all the straight timed/weighted/point performance type sports would be doable. Subtract the record cis female performance from the record cis male performance for a starting point and work from there. I don’t actually mind if it ends up being too hard on trans athletes because I don’t even really care if they get a perfectly fair shake so much as I want them to get to play.

Or they could just have their own sports category.........Men, Women, Trans Women/Women with blokes bod's
 
Transgenders aren't actually interested in being genderfluid intersex entities.

I dunno. The one transgender I actually know about on the forum actually said that she's ok with being a third category in sports, about half a dozen pages back in this very thread. One of the trans-women used as an example in this thread also agrees by now that she shouldn't have competed with biological women, too. The rest of the talk has been guys telling the transgenders what they REALLY want.

Really, Belz nailed it. Some people who aren't even in that pool are trying to tell those who are what they should be offended about, and even getting offended on their behalf.
 
Allow trans-woman to compete with women, but put them in a different prize stream. i.e. medals/prizes for the first three women, and medals/prizes for the first three trans-women.

That's still shafting the biological women, because there are only places for so many candidates in such events. E.g., in the olympics IIRC there might be ONE per country. Or if not, there's only so many lanes on a sprint track. So adding any trans-women will simply push out some biological women from that pool of candidates. And if enough trans-women compete they may simply leave no more room for the biological women.

For other sports, there's a pyramid style elimination process until only 2 are left to compete against each other. It's not clear at all how would you even conclude who's first and who's second among those who got eliminated before even the semifinals, if only the trans-women make it there.

And it's impossible to even figure out if the best biological woman was the one who made it to the semi-finals by luckily enough only drawing matches against other biological women, or the one who had to fight against the trans-woman in the very first elimination tier and lost.
 
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I just watched a special about women in sport for International women's day and the universal emphasis from the women on why promoting women's sport is important is for exposure, so that young girls and women could be encouraged to participate, and attempt to excel if they choose and are capable. Growing up in a household of boys, I had pretty much zero appreciation for this. Even though every little boy I played hockey with were obviously inspired by seeing NHLers on TV (Canadian), I did not appreciate how that was lacking for women. Now as the husband of a very athletic wife and a father of three girls I am beginning to better understand that in our culture, sport has more value than just as a commercial entertainment venture. For health and fitness, as well as just for societal participation, visible examples of women excelling and competing is inspirational.

Oh, this I agree with. Visible examples and role models are important. But that is somewhat different than saying that it's only about winning. In fact you said it yourself 'excelling and competing' but I believe they can still excel and compete in a world where transwomen also participate.

And you know what the weird thing, a lot of the faces arguing to exclude transwomen here are the same ones that will tell you if you switch topic to STEM employment (for example) than role models don't matter, that removing barriers doesn't matter and that it's just tough that women don't have the attitudes/aptitudes required to succeed.

You seem to be able to be able to comprehend arguments so this is not for your benefit but I will spell it out clearly for the hard of thinking - I do not advocate for a system in which transwomen completely dominate sport, in which ciswomen don't have a chance to compete, in which no ciswomen ever can win anything.

And if the only way to achieve that was to exclude them entirely then I would reluctantly agree that its for the best. I just don't agree that we are at that point, and I have given an example of the kind of situation where it seems to be working OK.


I agree that the thread title puts the discussion into an unfortunate combative framework and I can understand your choice to take a defensive/protective stance. I can see you acknowledge the inherent challenge in the situation, but I feel like you may feel hesitant to concede any main points lest it appear that you are failing to defend a vulnerable group. I can appreciate that, but I feel like even compassionate reason will conclude that having trans-women compete with females is not the best solution. As you mentioned, some examples can be found where it hasn't been problematic, but as you also acknowledge, it can be inappropriate and I do feel it is likely to generate considerable difficulties for females if it becomes generally accepted.

I think we can all imagine scenarios where it would generate considerable difficulties, and some of us at least can imagine scenarios where it wouldn't. My question has always been whether there are ways we can manage things that would allow us to steer it to the latter. The counter arguments have generally been screaming nonsense about men in bras, Roger Federer identifying as a woman on a Tuesday, or 0.3% of a population entirely displacing 50% (through mathematical magic apparently). Of course there have also been the non-readers.

One must concede the point that biological sex cannot be chosen, even if the point is raised in a bigoted fashion. This does not me one abandons compassion and advocacy, just that one pursues it within the limits of reality.

Well indeed. And what I have asked is to discuss biological and social realities rather than invented nonsense. And I have said at least once that I don't know what the actual magnitude of difference between a transwoman and a cis woman is in terms of biological advantage. And nobody else has been forthcoming with this. The transwoman in my example speaks about how hormone therapy significantly changes their biological advantage. And I have not seen anyone speak out to say they feel that they have an unfair advantage or that they don't want to play alongside her. I haven't heard any reports that she is making a mockery of the sport, or her league or the games she participates in.

And yet people here insist that she needs to be banned from competing. And I haven't seen anyone offer a single reason for that other than that she belongs to a group that they want to exclude.

And yes it's just 1 example, but nobody is seriously trying to argue that she is unique are they? There must be hundreds or thousands of people like her who could all participate happily in women's sports without causing any problems whatsoever.

Are there other situations where it doesn't work as well? Undoubtedly. Could things become an issue in future if the numbers skewed significantly? Quite possibly. But that is an argument to address those issues, not to throw the baby out with the bathwater.
 
Oh, this I agree with. Visible examples and role models are important. But that is somewhat different than saying that it's only about winning. In fact you said it yourself 'excelling and competing' but I believe they can still excel and compete in a world where transwomen also participate.

And you know what the weird thing, a lot of the faces arguing to exclude transwomen here are the same ones that will tell you if you switch topic to STEM employment (for example) than role models don't matter, that removing barriers doesn't matter and that it's just tough that women don't have the attitudes/aptitudes required to succeed.

You seem to be able to be able to comprehend arguments so this is not for your benefit but I will spell it out clearly for the hard of thinking - I do not advocate for a system in which transwomen completely dominate sport, in which ciswomen don't have a chance to compete, in which no ciswomen ever can win anything.

And if the only way to achieve that was to exclude them entirely then I would reluctantly agree that its for the best. I just don't agree that we are at that point, and I have given an example of the kind of situation where it seems to be working OK.




I think we can all imagine scenarios where it would generate considerable difficulties, and some of us at least can imagine scenarios where it wouldn't. My question has always been whether there are ways we can manage things that would allow us to steer it to the latter. The counter arguments have generally been screaming nonsense about men in bras, Roger Federer identifying as a woman on a Tuesday, or 0.3% of a population entirely displacing 50% (through mathematical magic apparently). Of course there have also been the non-readers.



Well indeed. And what I have asked is to discuss biological and social realities rather than invented nonsense. And I have said at least once that I don't know what the actual magnitude of difference between a transwoman and a cis woman is in terms of biological advantage. And nobody else has been forthcoming with this. The transwoman in my example speaks about how hormone therapy significantly changes their biological advantage. And I have not seen anyone speak out to say they feel that they have an unfair advantage or that they don't want to play alongside her. I haven't heard any reports that she is making a mockery of the sport, or her league or the games she participates in.

And yet people here insist that she needs to be banned from competing. And I haven't seen anyone offer a single reason for that other than that she belongs to a group that they want to exclude.

And yes it's just 1 example, but nobody is seriously trying to argue that she is unique are they? There must be hundreds or thousands of people like her who could all participate happily in women's sports without causing any problems whatsoever.

Are there other situations where it doesn't work as well? Undoubtedly. Could things become an issue in future if the numbers skewed significantly? Quite possibly. But that is an argument to address those issues, not to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

You don't care about women.
 
I'm not looking for a compromise. I'm looking for an answer.

So far, the answer seems to be that transwomen are not women. But that doesn't seem to solve the problem.
It would seem an answer could be that trans women are not women as classed by sporting organisations. They could be held to be women in many other places. The two views are not mutually exclusive.
 
Of course society will make the decision,what else do think could happen?

Government isn't society. When government steps in and forces a decision about this sort of thing, it's usually because a special interest wants something different than society does.
 
Growing up in a household of boys, I had pretty much zero appreciation for this. Even though every little boy I played hockey with were obviously inspired by seeing NHLers on TV (Canadian), I did not appreciate how that was lacking for women.

It's a sad thought that people can't get inspired by others that don't share some superficial characteristic with them.
 
I dunno. The one transgender I actually know about on the forum actually said that she's ok with being a third category in sports, about half a dozen pages back in this very thread. One of the trans-women used as an example in this thread also agrees by now that she shouldn't have competed with biological women, too. The rest of the talk has been guys telling the transgenders what they REALLY want.

Really, Belz nailed it. Some people who aren't even in that pool are trying to tell those who are what they should be offended about, and even getting offended on their behalf.

As a sidenote, it turned out that the overwhelming majority (90+%?) of the Native American population didn't care about the sports team name "Redskins".

But a lot of crackers were outraged.
 
It's a sad thought that people can't get inspired by others that don't share some superficial characteristic with them.

I'd say it's more like people are more inspired if they think that they too could do it. If it's a case of, yeah, someone else could, but YOU don't qualify, I dunno, I wouldn't be very inspired myself.
 
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Government isn't society. When government steps in and forces a decision about this sort of thing, it's usually because a special interest wants something different than society does.
What utter nonsense, government is one of the ways societies decide to organise, government is just as much a part of society as a sporting organisation.
 
I'd say it's more like people are more inspired if they think that they too could do it. If it's a case of, yeah, someone else could, but YOU don't qualify, I dunno, I wouldn't be very inspired myself.

That kinda makes me sad that people feel that way.

Personally I get inspired by people doing big things, doesn't matter if it's a thing I can do, it's the fact that an individual doing something awesome in their field .

Honestly if this is an opinion the majority of folks have, I think that is a huge part of the problem. Seems like a low key jealousy.
 
That kinda makes me sad that people feel that way.

Personally I get inspired by people doing big things, doesn't matter if it's a thing I can do, it's the fact that an individual doing something awesome in their field .

Honestly if this is an opinion the majority of folks have, I think that is a huge part of the problem. Seems like a low key jealousy.

I don't think it's jealousy, but rather pragmatism. I won't put a lot of effort into something, if I know I'm excluded from the start from going anywhere with it. The whole dream is that if I put enough effort into it -- even if I actually won't put in that effort, but I COULD put it -- or discover I have the secret X-Men gene, or are force sensitive, or whatever, I too could be the next Pele or Maradona. (To pick some examples from soccer that inspired my generation of teenagers.)

Same reason as why in the monomyth the hero starts as an everyman, really. You're a lot more inspired if it basically tells you that you too could be the hero.

But not as much if it's a case of "yeah, well, you COULD be the hero IF you had been born with a dick. But you weren't. Sorry, kid." You can't really imagine even a half-way realistic scenario that ends up with you being the hero.
 
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