Lithrael said:
If you’d stick to your concerns and leave out the insults and invective, or maybe just not put words in people’s mouths...
That's pretty rich, in the thread where I've been reviled as a bigot and a transphobe, and where I've been repeatedly mischaracterised as believing all sorts of stuff I've repeatedly said I don't believe.
A bunch of young people experimenting with any sort of presentation isn't exactly unusual. A bunch of girls who have generally been pretty unremarkably girly in earlier life suddenly announcing that they're really boys and want to have a double mastectomy and start taking testosterone, which is what we're talking about, is something else.
The real concern, though, as Kelly says, is the way these girls are being managed. The trans cult has such a stranglehold on health providers that it has become impossible to say, well hold on a bit, maybe you should explore how you feel without permanently altering your body, at least at first. That's transphobia and conversion therapy. It's denying the "young men" their authentic selves and it will lead to suicide. Parents who express concern with the fast-tracking to medicalisation (some girls getting prescriptions for testosterone on their second or even first appointment) are told "do you want a live son or a dead daughter?" as if there's no other possibility.
The mantra is, if she says she's trans she is trans, and it's bigoted hate to suggest a cautious approach. Girls are sourcing hormones off the internet and self-medicating. Girls are going to college and immediately being given access to hormones and mastectomies (in the USA on their parents' health insurance) without their parents knowing. All at breakneck speed, without any pause for reflection or reconsideration.
And one thing that's striking in all the studies of these girls is the high prevalence of psychiatric co-morbidities such as being on the autism spectrum or having other psychiatric or psychological problems. Transitioning is presented as the solution to everything, oh look they have these psychiatric problems because they're trans, so if they transition they'll be fine. No consideration of the possibility that the psychiatric problem is all mixed up with the trans identity, and that sorting out the psychiatric problem might alleviate the dysphoria, no, it's transphobic to suggest that.
The paradox here is that on the one hand anyone who says they're trans, or even muses that they
may be trans, is immediatly affirmed as trans, because the child is always right, the child knows best. By this way of looking at it, there are no false alarms. But then when someone desists after a few years of being trans, and writes about it, and expresses regret, and wishes she hadn't been enabled quite so quickly to destroy her body and her fertility, this is dismissed as "she wasn't really trans to begin with!"
No ****, Sherlock! That's kind of what these bigoted transphobic terf witches are trying to point out. Some adolescents and young adults who think they're trans, actually might not be. So a watchful waiting approach is suggested. Treat other psychiatric co-morbidities and discourage actual body modifications for a few years. But that's transphobic.
This is an enormous scandal in the making. We're going to look back on this in the same light as the Satanic abuse recovered memories outrage. The lawsuits are already beginning. But hey, you don't have to listen to me, just wait and see what's coming down the road.
ETA: Yes, it seems likely that many of these girls are actually gay, and may be clustering together for that reason. But the concern is not that lesbian girls socialise together, but that gender-nonconforming girls (many of whom are probably lesbian) are being led to believe that they're actually boys (nearly always boys, they don't often claim to be men). This is a dreadfully backwards step. Feminists fought for generations to allow anyone to express their personality and presentation any way they damn well pleased, irrespective of their biological sex. Sweep away the boxes and let everyone be themselves.
Now, though, the boxes are everything. It's all about how you "present". If you're a boy who likes pink and glitter you can't just be a boy who likes pink and glitter, you must really have a girl's brain and you must transition! If you're a girl who is uncomfortable with her developing body, and with the stares and comments it's attracting from porn-soaked boys and men, and you'd rather hide yourself away in jeans and baggy shirts and grunge, you must be a boy!
Did you look at the statistics? An absolutely enormous increase in adolescent and young adult girls presenting at gender clinics (although actually I think the Daily Fail's figures are wrong). This isn't about blue brains in female bodies, because the whole pink brain blue brain stuff is so much hogwash. This is a serious social and psychological problem, and the way it's being managed at present is nothing short of a scandal.