acbytesla
Penultimate Amazing
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Agreed. Confirmation bias and the inability to admit error is extremely strong in many, if not most, people. Even unimportant errors can be difficult for some to admit. A couple weeks ago, my husband and I were out with his brother and wife for dinner. My brother-in-law said something that we all reacted to with the same confusion. He'd accidentally used an incorrect word when he meant to use another as in saying "washing machine" instead of "dishwasher". When we all confirmed he'd said "washing machine", he insisted he'd said "dishwasher". All three of us heard "washing machine". He continued to deny his mistake and told his wife she needed her hearing tested. When my husband and I backed up his wife, he insisted we were mistaken, too. He never admitted to making a simple mistake the we all do from time to time.
I think this is a serious problem that a lot of people have. Dale Carnegie talks about the phenomenon in his famous book 'How to win friends and influence people'. I kind of believe that a course should be taught in high school about how it is ok to be wrong. Learning how to listen to being corrected and accepting those corrections gracefully.
Also teaching people not to correct others when they are wrong when it doesn't matter..(My personal flaw that I try to stop myself from doing.)