TERFs crash London Pride

Not everything is a goddamn victim ranking contest. X group can complain about things that effect X group without Y group reminding them that they have it worse.

In case it wasn't clear, I wasn't attempting to say that X or Y has it worse but that Y's problems are taken nearly as seriously by society at large (lobbyists, governments, academics, charities... everything).

This doesn't mean that Y's problems are necessarily worse but that to expect Y to be the only group to look out for and promote Y's issues is not going to be successful compared to X's efforts over the last 1-2 centuries, due to fundamental differences in empathy by both X and Y towards Y vs X, where both groups favor X rather than Y.

That said, I did make a brief statement in an earlier post that I do think in the western world that men probably do have it worse on average (literally less legal rights than women and less support), but that despite this I try not to make this point as I don't think it's constructive except to challenge the narrative that exactly the opposite case is unquestionably true.
 
Thus proving pharphis absolutely correct.

I don't think so as I don't consider him to be "society at large". Maybe he has a reason for laughter being the first response. Sometimes that's my first response to things I consider ridiculous.

I'd like to hear why laughter is the response. My educated guess is "women have it (unquestionably) worse than men because society hates women (and therefore doesn't care about their problems as much as men's)" but being a popular narrative doesn't mean it's true. The justification for said position is likely "look at the top 1% they're all men!!!" as if that has any bearing on the other 99% of men
 
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Sad display of lack of compassion.

What if I told you that society as a whole takes men's problems less seriously, and therefore we need more than just men to fight on behalf of men's issues for real change to take place? (despite the "patriarchy"). Why do both men and women care about women and girls, but largely neither men nor women care about men and boys?

Do you also think that only LGBT folk should fight on behalf of LGBT folk? Or more specifically, gays fighting for gays, lesbians for lesbians, and so on... pretty splintered groups that will all engage in othering.

Have you ever seen lesbians or gays in feminist spaces asking for help and empathy and brought out the violin and told them to do ti themselves?

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It instructive that a thread about lesbians fighting to defend their hard-won rights and recognition is now a thread about men's rights.

Gender-critical feminists are right now standing up for boys by challenging the dangerous transgender ideology that justifies telling vulnerable young boys that they have been born in the wrong body and will require medical intervention and, later, physical mutilation (e.g. castration) in order to align their so-called "gender" with their "real" sex.

Feminists (e.g Andrea Dworkin) have been pioneers in exposing and challenging child sexual abuse.
 
Here follows strawmen (though hard to see anything "vile" about them):

Hilarious.




That's all almost completely wrong. There isn't much else to say about that, but see below.

Saying "feminism means that ..." or "feminism wants ..." is utterly like saying "jazz music sounds like ..." . Count Basie? Spyro Gyra? Kenny G? Charlie Byrd?

Define the specifics what you're actually talking about (to a degree - I still don't get what is "trance" vs "house" music), or you're just spouting piffle. Remember : this is the decade in which we've seen Christina Hoff Sommers deplatformed for being anti-woman, so we're well into the Koyaanisqatsi realm of language.

That is why I warned about it being somewhat of an oversimplification and went into some of the different broad groups of feminism. Statements like 'feminism wants to erase gender' are simply wrong. Almost all feminists do want to remove all power from gender roles, but not even all radical feminists disapprove of gender expression or gender identity, or are in any way against trans activism. To argue that they do is to argue that people like Dworken are not radical feminists.

And this shows the danger of people asserting they speak for any group they belong to, to the extent of saying others cannot be part of the group (like the idea advanced by some radical feminists that men cannot be feminists, which if it wasn't clear before is an idea I don't agree with). It does nothing for the argument because one can then just quote someone from that group that agrees with themselves. It just adds a layer of abstraction to the discussion and dismisses arguments by ad hom.

Better to focus on the merits of the argument than any of that.
 
They got the L out.

Except they don't actually want to get the 'L' out, they want to get the 'T' out. They assert that transactivism, inherently, erases lesbians. They are complaining about the 'L' getting out.


The old 'you are intolerant of our intolerance so you are not tolerant' gambit. It never gets old. 'People disagree with my arguments, help, I'm being oppressed!'

And yes, what those who hijacked the front of the parade and what you advance Rolfe are intolerance, while the objection that transactivism inherently erases lesbians is moronic, on top of not being tolerant.

How? The trans people are fighting to be able to live as themselves, and a say in who they are. The lesbians and 'feminists' in this case are fighting to stop others from having a say in who they are. The trans people aren't telling the cis lesbians who they are; the cis lesbians are trying to tell the trans people who the trans people are. That's why the people cutting in line and hijacking this parade are (obviously!) the ones being intolerant. One group wants people to tolerate who they are, and the other wants to be able to not tolerate, and in fact control, who others say they are.

The TERFs in this case are trying to control trans people by using language control to 'other' trans people. They want the right to invalidate identity of others by their say alone, rather than by reasoned argument. This is also at the heart of your objections to the perfectly fine term 'cis'. See, if 'cis' is a thing, then 'trans' is just another thing, and not 'the other' to be scared of.

This is exactly like objecting to the term 'man'. Why have a term for that? I'm human. If a human isn't like me, then let them be called something to signify that like 'woman', rather than calling me something other than human. (Yes, I'm fully aware that 'man' does originally mean 'human' and 'wer-man' was the term for a male human). Of course that demeans and 'others' women, the same way the crybully insistence that 'cis' is an insult does for trans people.

But all that is actually using radical feminist philosophical arguments, which I can't use or possibly understand because I'm a cis man.
 
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Hilarious.





That's all almost completely wrong. There isn't much else to say about that, but see below.



That is why I warned about it being somewhat of an oversimplification and went into some of the different broad groups of feminism. Statements like 'feminism wants to erase gender' are simply wrong. Almost all feminists do want to remove all power from gender roles, but not even all radical feminists disapprove of gender expression or gender identity, or are in any way against trans activism. To argue that they do is to argue that people like Dworken are not radical feminists.

What is your definition of the word 'gender'?

And this shows the danger of people asserting they speak for any group they belong to, to the extent of saying others cannot be part of the group (like the idea advanced by some radical feminists that men cannot be feminists, which if it wasn't clear before is an idea I don't agree with). It does nothing for the argument because one can then just quote someone from that group that agrees with themselves. It just adds a layer of abstraction to the discussion and dismisses arguments by ad hom.

Better to focus on the merits of the argument than any of that.

Confused waffle.

Feminism, from it's foundation, has critiqued the concept of gender as a tool for keeping women politically subordinate.

Gender is the societally defined behaviours and attributes deemed appropriate according to one's biological sex, i.e. what is supposedly masculine and feminine.
 
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Except they don't actually want to get the 'L' out, they want to get the 'T' out. They assert that transactivism, inherently, erases lesbians. They are complaining about the 'L' getting out.


No, they are saying that, in order for lesbians to a have a political voice, they need leave the male-dominated, gender-identity-politics-crazed, Post-modern alphabet soup faction (led by Stonewall), which is erasing their existence, and speak out as lesbians for lesbians.


The old 'you are intolerant of our intolerance so you are not tolerant' gambit. It never gets old. 'People disagree with my arguments, help, I'm being oppressed!'

^^ Rational, coherent thinking stops here. ^^

And yes, what those who hijacked the front of the parade and what you advance Rolfe are intolerance, while the objection that transactivism inherently erases lesbians is moronic, on top of not being tolerant.

Did you read the article?


How? The trans people are fighting to be able to live as themselves, and a say in who they are.

When transwomen ask others to agree with them when they say : "I am a woman",

This is what they are fighting for:

"Everybody else in the world has to go along with my fantasies"

It is not possible to change sex simply by saying you are the opposite sex to the one you are born as, or by any other means.


The lesbians and 'feminists' in this case are fighting to stop others from having a say in who they are.

No, they are saying that a biological man cannot be a biological woman.

The trans people aren't telling the cis lesbians who they are;

Yes, they are. They are telling them they are "cis lesbians".

They are telling them that they are not homosexual. They are telling them that lesbians can have penises (girl dicks) and "cis lesbians" ( i.e. lesbians who are homosexual women) should be open to having sex with people with penises (men). And, if they are not sexually attracted to transwomen (men), they are being told that they are 'transphobic'.

the cis lesbians

What is non-cis lesbian?

Does it mean a lesbian who's never had a penis?

are trying to tell the trans people who the trans people are. That's why the people cutting in line and hijacking this parade are (obviously!) the ones being intolerant. One group wants people to tolerate who they are, and the other wants to be able to not tolerate, and in fact control, who others say they are.

Transgender activist ideology (which does not represent all trans people's beliefs) wants us to tolerate a lie, namely that transwomen are women.

The lesbian protesters are telling transwomen (men) that they aren't aren't women, which is true. Or perhaps your kind of tolerance includes embracing dangerous lies.

Contradicting this lie is blasphemy to the Church of Post-modern Transgender Identity Politics (COPTIP) and triggers huge outpourings of screaming, narcissistic, sometimes violent, rage.

The TERFs in this case are trying to control trans people by using language control to 'other' trans people.

LOL. What do you think labelling people "TERFs" is doing?

What is calling lesbians "cis lesbians" doing?


They want the right to invalidate identity of others by their say alone, rather than by reasoned argument. This is also at the heart of your objections to the perfectly fine term 'cis'. See, if 'cis' is a thing, then 'trans' is just another thing, and not 'the other' to be scared of.


Calling women (aka "Uterus bearers") cis-women erases women as a class, by pretending that biology and the life experiences and oppression based on biology, are irrelevant/ non-existent. It asserts that transwomen are as much women as "cis" women and therefore deserve all the legal rights and protections women have as women.

Please present a reasoned argument supporting the claim that a man can be a woman simply by "identifying" as a woman.



This is exactly like objecting to the term 'man'. Why have a term for that? I'm human. If a human isn't like me, then let them be called something to signify that like 'woman', rather than calling me something other than human. (Yes, I'm fully aware that 'man' does originally mean 'human' and 'wer-man' was the term for a male human). Of course that demeans and 'others' women, the same way the crybully insistence that 'cis' is an insult does for trans people.

The only people objecting to the word "man" are your non-cis friends subscribing to transgender activist ideology. For them, men, like lesbians, no longer exist.

Feminists object to the word 'man' being used to mean 'woman'. They have no objection to a man to calling himself a man.




But all that is actually using radical feminist philosophical arguments, which I can't use or possibly understand because I'm a cis man.

When did you discover your cis-man identity?

What's the difference between a man and a "cis man"?
 
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IIRC the Stonewall riot was started by a transgender woman so yeah I’m shocked that a group named after it would be vocally trans-inclusive and critical of groups that paint transgender activism as a bad awful harmful thing.

Admittedly the actual stonewall in is not the best with regards to trans issues of late. I know many people who boycott it for that reason.
 
I guess Rolfe was right, the rest of the forum didn't get it. Oh well.

Yes, yes, 'L' sounds like 'hell'. Very amusing, but as they think that the existence of trans women erases lesbians it's worth pointing that out. Their pithy remark doesn't actually match what they're saying. It's not quite a joke the same way some things don't actually rhyme but are close. Like, a slant joke.
 
No, they are saying that, in order for lesbians to a have a political voice, they need leave the male-dominated, gender-identity-politics-crazed, Post-modern alphabet soup faction (led by Stonewall), which is erasing their existence, and speak out as lesbians for lesbians.

I know what they think. What they're arguing is that trans women erase lesbians, and they want trans activism gone. That they make this argument because they believe as you claim here doesn't change what they are arguing.


^^ Rational, coherent thinking stops here. ^^

It is very clear you don't follow the discussion very well. Is English not your first language? I'm being serious, because you keep thinking things I'm objecting to or presenting as the beliefs of others are my beliefs.

Yes, my point there was that there was a problem with that 'reasoning'.

Did you read the article?

Yes.


When transwomen ask others to agree with them when they say : "I am a woman",

This is what they are fighting for:

"Everybody else in the world has to go along with my fantasies"

It is not possible to change sex simply by saying you are the opposite sex to the one you are born as, or by any other means.

Well, no, they generally are fighting for tolerance. As in, if you don't like how they are living, don't bother them with it. If you are leaving them alone, tolerating them, how would they even know if you agree with them or not?

But this is the essential conflict among the many other conflicts with transgender issues. You, Rolfe, and some others despite your other disagreements don't care to treat trans women (always women) as women in any meaningful context. You all arrive there differently. Others accept them as women, even if we have other disagreements around that. Arguing any other point with this central point is in disagreement isn't likely to be that productive.




No, they are saying that a biological man cannot be a biological woman.

No, they are saying they can't be women in any sense.



Yes, they are. They are telling them they are "cis lesbians".

They are telling them that they are not homosexual. They are telling them that lesbians can have penises (girl dicks) and "cis lesbians" ( i.e. lesbians who are homosexual women) should be open to having sex with people with penises (men). And, if they are not sexually attracted to transwomen (men), they are being told that they are 'transphobic'.

They (as a general group we are talking about trans-inclusive activists right?) are doing no such thing as saying they are not homosexual. That's absurd. It's the same absurd concern as cishet men. The reasoning 'The people I want to have sex with are women, I don't want to have sex with those people, therefore those people aren't women' is obviously wrong. It's as wrong as 'The people I want to have sex with are between 20-40, I don't want to have sex with that person, so that person isn't between 20-40'. We simply don't define sexual orientation by who you don't want to have sex with. If we did, lesbians and I would be in the same category (penis ruins it).

The people arguing that if you don't want to have sex with a trans person you are a bigot are wrong, but that doesn't make every objection against that argument correct.



What is non-cis lesbian?
Does it mean a lesbian who's never had a penis?

That would be a trans lesbian. Is that really hard to follow?



Transgender activist ideology (which does not represent all trans people's beliefs) wants us to tolerate a lie, namely that transwomen are women.

The lesbian protesters are telling transwomen (men) that they aren't aren't women, which is true. Or perhaps your kind of tolerance includes embracing dangerous lies.

Contradicting this lie is blasphemy to the Church of Post-modern Transgender Identity Politics (COPTIP) and triggers huge outpourings of screaming, narcissistic, sometimes violent, rage.

Yeah, opponents of trans rights are never violent, screaming, narcissistic, dickwads. Lmao. This 'the trans people are the violent ones' assertion is utterly moronic. Yeah, the people targeted by literal Nazis are the violent ones. Of course being the target of violence doesn't mean a group isn't violent themselves, but when comparing the groups for trans rights and against and thinking those for are the more violent is beyond idiotic; it is a dangerous lie.


LOL. What do you think labelling people "TERFs" is doing?

What is calling lesbians "cis lesbians" doing?

Differentiating groups. Do you think that is always done for the purpose of 'othering'?

Well in one sense, yes. TERF specifically is to 'other' TERFs who the larger feminist community doesn't want representing them. I'd say that's more than justified. I'm generally fine with that being done for things like political or philosophical groupings, such as TERF, and not for intrinsic personal characteristics (cis, trans, black, white, old, etc).





Calling women (aka "Uterus bearers") cis-women erases women as a class, by pretending that biology and the life experiences and oppression based on biology, are irrelevant/ non-existent. It asserts that transwomen are as much women as "cis" women and therefore deserve all the legal rights and protections women have as women.

Please present a reasoned argument supporting the claim that a man can be a woman simply by "identifying" as a woman.

Wait, you think that being oppressed is inherent to the definition of a 'true woman'? Does this mean that when equality is in existence, there are no more 'true women'?

Even more absurd, trans women who pass get treated as cis women already. They get those life experiences too.

Also; it is NOT that they become a woman simply by identifying as one, but the things that cause them to identify as a woman make her one. This is an important distinction, and ties into another mistake in reasoning you make.



The only people objecting to the word "man" are your non-cis friends subscribing to transgender activist ideology. For them, men, like lesbians, no longer exist.

Feminists object to the word 'man' being used to mean 'woman'. They have no objection to a man to calling himself a man.

Well that point flew completely over your head. Is English not your first language?



When did you discover your cis-man identity?

The second after the term was explained to me.

What's the difference between a man and a "cis man"?

One is a subset of the other.

What is your definition of the word 'gender'?

Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, various gender categories.

Confused waffle.

Feminism, from it's foundation, has critiqued the concept of gender as a tool for keeping women politically subordinate.

Nooooooooooooo. That is just straight up wrong. Feminism, from its (it's is a contraction of 'it is') foundation is advocating for the advancement of women. It was for gaining rights and liberties for women, and has in modern times become the struggle for equality. That some feminists have come to the conclusion that the concept of 'gender' has to go, or be changed, or exist but have power removed from it, or many other things depending on the feminists theory one is talking about, does not mean that feminism is founded on that conclusion. In short at best you have it backwards.

And if the destruction of 'gender' is the goal, and for many/most radical feminists it is supposed to be, opposing trans activism is a backwards way to go about it.

Gender is the societally defined behaviours and attributes deemed appropriate according to one's biological sex, i.e. what is supposedly masculine and feminine.

That's a surprisingly western Imperialist view coming from you. There are plenty of cultures with more than two genders, and assuming the western tradition of tying it to male and female only invalidates them.
 
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Yes, yes, 'L' sounds like 'hell'. Very amusing, but as they think that the existence of trans women erases lesbians it's worth pointing that out. Their pithy remark doesn't actually match what they're saying. It's not quite a joke the same way some things don't actually rhyme but are close. Like, a slant joke.


One of the actual banners carried by the lesbian group read "Get the "L" out." And yes, that is what they are campaigning for. For lesbians to split from the alphabet soup where they're being bullied, insulted and erased, and to revert to organising their own affairs.
 
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IIRC the Stonewall riot was started by a transgender woman so yeah I’m shocked that a group named after it would be vocally trans-inclusive and critical of groups that paint transgender activism as a bad awful harmful thing.


This is not my subject so I can't vouch for the truth of it but I have encountered numerous assertions that this is a misleading statement. I would therefore appreciate a fact-check.
 
Jane, I have to take my hat off to you, I don't know how you retain your patience to go on typing against this tirade of falsehoods, fantasy, male supremacy, misogyny and downright lies.
 

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