Why can't you propose a system that makes it clear when non consensual sex is rape or not?
These things make it hard to determine the truth sure, but are also fairly common in the most common forms of rape, that between partners and people in the same social circle. This does show why going to the police is often not in the victims best interest. If she had lied to fiends about the consensual nature of the sex then that undermines her case and makes her a villain no matter who raped who.
Here is a secret, most rapes are the kind that can never be prosecuted so if there is very little odds of anything other than humiliation why should we encourage the victims to go through that?
The issue here is that the alleged victim's behaviour was not that of someone who had been raped.
Telling a friend she was not raped and pestering the accused for more sex afterwards clearly casts doubt on the initial allegation.
In Scotland there has to be consent, or it is rape.
https://www.legislation.gov.uk/asp/2009/9/section/1
That it is harder to prove than other crimes is not a reason to dissuade victims from repprting the crime.
The fact is there's no one way to behave after a sexual assault. The mistake lay people make is thinking that they know what what they *would* have done, and thinking that's the only way to do things. Thus, you end up with psychologists testifying about battered partner syndrome. And you end up with juries who use "common sense" instead of science.
There's a dichotomy here that needs elucidating: there's a difference between the elements that constitute rape and the ones that can be proven. Sometimes, the victim's own behavior makes proof difficult, but that doesn't mean a crime wasn't committed.
Why can't you propose a system that makes it clear when non consensual sex is rape or not?
The fact is there's no one way to behave after a sexual assault. The mistake lay people make is thinking that they know what what they *would* have done, and thinking that's the only way to do things. Thus, you end up with psychologists testifying about battered partner syndrome. And you end up with juries who use "common sense" instead of science.
There's a dichotomy here that needs elucidating: there's a difference between the elements that constitute rape and the ones that can be proven. Sometimes, the victim's own behavior makes proof difficult, but that doesn't mean a crime wasn't committed.
But if you report it and there is reason to question you become a horrible liar who was trying to destroy an innocent man. Better forget the whole thing and live with the rape than deal with all that.
Do you enjoy victim blaming? The guy is her victim as are the legitimate rape victims she is making things much more difficult for. She is looking mighty selfish at the moment.
Where is your evidence for that? The guy is the victim of the police sure but where is the evidence she did anything wrong,
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/201...used-rape-says-will-sue-police-cps-questions/
"That evidence comprised a cache of sex texts sent from his alleged victim, including one, sent to a friend just weeks before Mr Allan was arrested, reportedly saying: “It wasn’t against my will or anything.” Others detailed her secret fantasies about being raped and choked during sex."
Lots of people here have been reading up on the case. Unlike you.

Report a rape in Scotland and the victim is believed and a set procedure of investigation is conducted.
The victim is questioned in as much as they are asked to recount what happened and any discrepancies will result in follow up interviews.
The victim is assigned a SOLO (sexual offences liaison officer) to accompany them and deal with any issues or questions they may have.
The picture you are trying to paint of how rape is investigated is certainly not the case here. I hope you do not actively try and dissuade people from reporting rape or any other sex crime.
This case also highlights a pretty crappy issue that comes up
The dude that has no case against him is publicly named and shamed for 2 years thinking most of the time he might end up in jail for up to 12 years, and the psycho chick gets name suppression, and anonymity, probably ending in a slight telling off.
That fits the presented information, but it also fits well into what happens when someone rapes a partner.
How much should the victim go through for an 5% conviction chance? That was figuring from the 1692 reported rapes and 117 attempted rapes to the 104 convictions in 2016 in Scotland?
https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/help-facts/
It seems better to just get on with your life than bother with all the heart ache of dealing with the police for those minuscule odds of conviction.
Clearly 95% of reported rapes are falsely reported unlike the 10% most people think.
This is what makes rape such a great crime, you have low odds after raping your girlfriend that she will ever report it, and even if reported your odds of being convicted are so low. And if the conviction fails you get tons of sympathy.
And look at what happens with no jury to people like Bill Cosby, Roger Ailes, Harvey Weinstein and all those other innocent men.
You seem to be convinced this dude is guilty.
Not sure why, as it kind of works as "innocent till proven guilty"
You seem to be convinced this dude is guilty.
Not sure why, as it kind of works as "innocent till proven guilty"