Here you are: Skip to 8:30:
https://youtu.be/P_6vDLq64gE
Umm...no. I watched the video and nowhere does she support any of the claims you made that I highlighted above. Nowhere. She does talk about "qualifiers" but the use of "obviously" is not included. Her examples were "In all truth" and "In all candor". Nowhere does she say that "police, barristers, and judges are trained to be alert to lying" either.
This is simply a video discussing how to spot some
possible signs of deception but she also makes clear that "these behaviors are just behaviors.
They are not proof of deception. They are just red flags. We're human beings. We make deceptive flailing gestures all over the place all day long. They don't mean anything of and by themselves."
What I did find most interesting was when she said this:
An honest person is going to be cooperative. They're going to show they're on your side. They're going to be enthusiatic. They're going to be willing and enthusiastic at getting you to the truth. They're going to be willing to brainstorm, to name suspects, provide details. They're going to say 'Hey, maybe it was those guys in payroll who forged those checks'.
Which is exactly what Amanda did. She stayed to help the police instead of going home or to her cousin in Germany. She cooperated with the police day after day, giving them names of any men who had come to the cottage when asked. She only complained about being tired and having to repeat the same things day after day.
So no, your video does not support your
claims. Try again.
Just to be clear, I do believe that body language can tell us many things, including if someone is lying
sometimes. A mother can
often read when her child is lying, hiding something or upset...but not all the time. It is not a science, it is not infallible. This is exactly why "experts" come to differing conclusions when seeing the same thing. For example, when saying "no" to a question and jerking the head down, one expert may say it's a sign of really saying "yes" when another says it may be nothing more than a gesture of strong emphasis of that "no".