Islamic beliefs are just as broad and varied as Christian beliefs or any other beliefs. Some Muslims are very relaxed, broadminded, socially and politically progressive and all-round good eggs. Some are narrow minded bigots with some seriously horrible views.
I don't think I have ever met any of the latter, but I have certainly met plenty of the former.
That a true believer must not compromise, must not accept any other belief system, must not tolerate anyone who does. If so, then every member would be under some [probably varying] pressure to participate in a worldwide campaign to either convert or destroy. Those individuals who choose not to play, are then seen as allowing wickedness.*
While I have spent some time these last few days reading up on the subject, it's difficult to find information I consider unbiased one way or the other. I'd love to be shown I'm wrong -my currently dimming view isn't much fun, to be honest.
Well it's hard to find 'unbiased' opinions depending on what you mean by unbiased and I'm not sure what data could be shown to convince you. How many gay Muslims for example would be evidence that Islam is not one monolithic block of belief and Muslims are not all one big mass of adherents to a narrow ideology?
Part of my view is informed by spending time with Muslims, mixing with them in the workplace and socially, and living beside them in my community. From personal experience I would say the Muslims I have met are much more likely to be 'good easy going people' than the white folks but I don't pretend that's in any way representative or scientific.
Another way I look at it is to consider what would the world actually look like if all or a majority or even a decent sized minority of Muslims actually believed they were at war with non-Muslims and that killing us was the right thing to do. It would be a hell of a lot different to what it looks like now that's for sure.
But I've been hearing the "it's just a few" argument since 9/11, while simultaneously watching these attacks continue. Obviously "the few" just keeps getting replenished, and the source has to be "the many".
You could say the same about any murder. It's only a few people who are murderers but it continues to happen. Therefore the few murderers must be being replenished by the many. What does that tell us about whether the many think murder is OK?
Bottom line: I'm sick of these attacks, but I don't think they will stop until the root of the problem is identified; and I suspect that root to be a belief that akin to the "Kill him to save him" trope of some Christian sects.*
*Which may also help explain why none of these terrorists seem to care how many fellow Islamists or Muslims are injured or killed in these attacks. If they tolerate outside beliefs, they are not being true to their own.
I think we are all sick of these attacks. I think you have misidentified the root of the problem. I don't even think there might be ONE root of the problem I think it's become a complex mish-mash of influencers and drivers which definitely includes religious teachings but also includes various social and political factors.
Turn it on it's head as well and consider that we in the West are continuing to kill many more Muslims through our attacks on them and other actions (if that's how you want to define the 'sides') than they are killing of us through their attacks. Regardless of the rights and wrongs of those military actions (put that debate to one side) its worth bearing that in mind and reflecting on it.
It's also worth remembering that many more people were being killed by terrorists in Europe during the 80s when the terrorists were almost all 'homegrown' Europeans and nobody had ever heard the word Jihadi. I don't think the Quran has changed much in the last 30 years so I think there must be more to it than that.