I didn't ask you to define the word, I know what it means. I asked you for a simple scenario with a specific state at a specific point in time. It's not hard.
For instance:
Bob wants to synchronise his clock with his friends, Cindy and Dave. They are all standing on a straight road 1 km apart. Bob is in the middle. They each have a large digital display clock. Bob can look at Cindy and Dave's clocks and see what time they read. Since light takes time to get to him the time when he reads the clock will be slightly later than the time that he reads, but because of the symmetrical situation: Cindy and Dave are both equally distant from Bob, he will know the numbers he sees on their clocks are simultaneous. If Cindy's clock read's 12noon and Dave's clock reads 1 pm he will know that Dave's clock is just set 1 hour ahead, but that at any moment in time the number on Dave's clock will just be 1 hour ahead of Cindy's. He can even tell Dave to reset his clock to 1 hour earlier to synchronise with Cindy's.
It seems pretty straightforward then that, once they have synchronised their clocks in this way, if Cindy's clock reads 2pm now, Dave's also reads 2pm now.
You are focusing your example on SR and synchronicity and reference. I don't disagree with SR or anything you say about SR.
You can describe as much of the universe as you like at a particular moment. The issue is that the time label is arbitrary and dependent upon reference frame.
No, I can't describe much of the state of reality at all. Nor have I tried.
You, on the other hand, keep showing me examples of reality (bouncing ball on a moving train, shapes on a paper, something about Bob, Cindy, Dave, and Alice) then showing me how that reality appears from different angles. Yet, the reality you created remains unchanged. ETA: We can understand your examples of pieces of reality, yet we can't understand the similar concept on the whole of reality?
We both agree that there is an objective reality. We disagree that it includes simultaneity as a property of systems. Things can be said to be simultaneous in a particular reference frame but not in another, and there is no preferred frame.
Then what are we arguing about?
What we are arguing about is:
I say there is an objective frame of reference. I can only build this frame logically, because as SR demonstrates, there is no real way we can view the objective frame:
1. Reality;
2. At any instant, reality exists in a specific state;
3. From any real perspective, SR is in charge.
4. No one, no thing that exists that can take in the whole of reality as it exists
I believe we agree to this point. We could stop here and be in happy agreement. And I'm at a loss that the next step is a problem...
Reality happens the way it happens in the sequence in which it happens. I am making no claims about any two or more subsets of reality and how they relate. I am only saying they do, objectively, relate in a specific way, in a specific sequence.