bit_pattern
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Sure, everyone's needs are different, but at least I have had one success. A very good mate of mine was packing on the lard and I started suggesting he was setting himself up for an early grave. That got him thinking - eventually - about leaving his kids without a dad and he pulled the plug on the crappy food and started walking.
Looks great now and happiest and healthiest he's been in a couple of decades.
It won't always (or maybe even often) work, but it has to be worth trying.
Telling a friend that you're concerned about their health is a world away from stigmatisation and shaming. This anecdote sounds like a very positive interaction. Whereas saying: "Hey, lardarse, you're fat because you're lazy and stupid" would be a very negative interaction.