Q: This is all psycho-babble ********. How do you KNOW what Amanda thinks?
A: I hear that one a lot. First, it is fallacious to imply that one has to “know” someone to know if they did something or not. Suppose I never met a guy. Suppose I don’t “know” him. If a girl gets pregnant and I test her DNA, then compare it to that guy’s DNA, and it matches, I know he likely ********** her. Any questions?
So, seriously, if you read the intro I specifically stated that I would establish the conclusion based on evidence, not psychology. The psychology is just the backdrop used for instructional purposes after the fact, after I show the “who” and the “why”. I don’t know diddly **** about Amanda (not much) … and I don’t need to. Narcissists operate on the principle of secrecy – they have to be able to dissemble and fool others as to their intent. That’s the secret formula to their success. They trick people into trusting their good intentions. They are confidence artists pure and simple.
And the three things they hate the most are psychology, smart people and authority. Now, can you see why? Watch all the AMK apologists out there. Most of their venom is held for those that expose their true intent and those that would place obligations on them (such as courts): Within a few weeks it is clear that you are a narcissist that doesn’t care about anyone but yourself, and doesn’t play well with your betters, with those that look better than you, are smarter than you and are liked more than you, so, complete your potty training or no invitations to things like Halloween parties. This is called a time-out. Know what I’m saying?
I think I’m going to start the “National piss off a Narcissist” day. What can you do to absolutely, positively guarantee you will infuriate them? Trick them. Fool them, make them the mark. Humiliate them and expose their false veneer. Okay, no, don’t try that at home. But it IS true.