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The most disquieting argument styles...

Hunter

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Hi folks, long time no see.

Here's the deal, I was speaking with a neighbour of mine, a intelligent fellow certainly, and quite commonsensical in most matters. The problem is his particular style of "argument". Have you ever spoken with someone who ends up ...I'm not sure if theres a formal phrase for this: "Muddying the water" by well...constantly going off into bizzarre branches and strange circuituitous(sp?) routes. Everytime you try and "pin em" they end up defining their way out of a situation or going through some strange side path that only wastes more time and confuses all parties even further.

E.g.

- "Well, you see, language happens to be a means of useful communication. We have certain roughly, or in the case of scientific terminology accurately, agreed upon phenomena or shared experiences which we use to communicate: i.e. We both have a pretty darned clear understanding of what the other means when we say "tree" "

Respons: "Yes, yes, but Language ultimately is comprised of letters! It is an illusion!"


-"We may one day conquer aging, halting the aging process entirely"

Response: "Yea right. The universe is change. The only thing that is constant is change!"

Counter-" Thats well and good, but what does that have to do with humans achieving immortality?"

Response: " We cannot achieve immortality, the universe will continue to change!"

Huh?

While I managed to eventually get a clear, prescise series of definitions and statements out of him, that particular argumentative method is fairly disturbing, even more disturbing however, is when I face this argumentative style in people who *don't* have something sensible or even remotely logic or evidence based to say. How are you supposed to deal with that particular method? It's one thing to deal with someone who just has a weird way of going about things, another thing to try and get through to a person who keeps going around in in insane circles without anything solid to support them.
 
Seems to be common pathology of many believers. I think it stems from their ability to think clearly in the first place, although I could be wrong.
 
RichardR said:
Seems to be common pathology of many believers. I think it stems from their ability to think clearly in the first place, although I could be wrong.

I believe that this argument style is not just a pathology, but a direct result of the believer mentality. By definition, they believe in something which cannot be proven. So, when asked to prove whatever it is they believe in, all they can do is dodge the question, give some vague answer (hoping that it sounds like some wise old Buddhist quote), and/or spout out a bunch of made up postmodern-esque jargon.
 
Looking into cults shows that intelligence is no defense against the seduction of irrationality.

Many cult members are 'smart'..and yet they follow trains of thought that one would think anyone could see through.
 
I have a friend who's political opinions are very different to mine and he always uses that argument technique:

Him: The Iraq war was purely about oil. After ll, whay hasn't the US intervened in other countries (long list follows) that have dictators in charge?

Me: Ok - I can accept that strategic resource considerations have a part to play in a nation's foreign policy but don't you think that a government would be letting its citizens down if it did not adress such an important issue?

Him: Bush has close financial ties with the Bin Laden family and we all know who it was that trained the Afghan militants in the first place.

Me: Another pint of mild or do you fancy trying the guest ale this time?
 
Hunter said:
Hi folks, long time no see.

Here's the deal, I was speaking with a neighbour of mine, a intelligent fellow certainly, and quite commonsensical in most matters. The problem is his particular style of "argument". Have you ever spoken with someone who ends up ...I'm not sure if theres a formal phrase for this: "Muddying the water" by well...constantly going off into bizzarre branches and strange circuituitous(sp?) routes. Everytime you try and "pin em" they end up defining their way out of a situation or going through some strange side path that only wastes more time and confuses all parties even further.

E.g.

- "Well, you see, language happens to be a means of useful communication. We have certain roughly, or in the case of scientific terminology accurately, agreed upon phenomena or shared experiences which we use to communicate: i.e. We both have a pretty darned clear understanding of what the other means when we say "tree" "

Respons: "Yes, yes, but Language ultimately is comprised of letters! It is an illusion!"


-"We may one day conquer aging, halting the aging process entirely"

Response: "Yea right. The universe is change. The only thing that is constant is change!"

Counter-" Thats well and good, but what does that have to do with humans achieving immortality?"

Response: " We cannot achieve immortality, the universe will continue to change!"

Huh?

While I managed to eventually get a clear, prescise series of definitions and statements out of him, that particular argumentative method is fairly disturbing, even more disturbing however, is when I face this argumentative style in people who *don't* have something sensible or even remotely logic or evidence based to say. How are you supposed to deal with that particular method? It's one thing to deal with someone who just has a weird way of going about things, another thing to try and get through to a person who keeps going around in in insane circles without anything solid to support them.


This is an extremely common ploy. Someone out there calls it shot-gunning or something like that. It’s annoying but, in a way it’s flattering at the same time. This kind of debate suggests that the other person either cannot effectively debate at all or they simply cannot debate the subject and try to steer the conversation into an area that that they are more knowledgeable.

One thing that I run into time and time again is this idea that “debate” equates “fight.” A debate seems to be a simple exchange of viewpoints, neither side need agree with the other. Simply that their points must be clearly stated and accepted as points in the debate and that’s all. A fight is where all rules are suspended and each party seeks to destroy the other using whatever logical fallacies (or not) they choose. Many people (in my experience) can’t seem to grasp the difference. To them, there are only two forms of discussion, tact agreement or all out war. You will agree with their viewpoint or you’re just an idiot.

What’s with that?
 
I think I recognize that style of argument, too: politicians are very adept at it.
 
kalen said:
I think I recognize that style of argument, too: politicians are very adept at it.

Well some politicians certainly. The same ones who utter things like “you are either with us or against us.”
 
Re: Re: The most disquieting argument styles...

The Odd Emperor said:

One thing that I run into time and time again is this idea that “debate” equates “fight.” A debate seems to be a simple exchange of viewpoints, neither side need agree with the other. Simply that their points must be clearly stated and accepted as points in the debate and that’s all. A fight is where all rules are suspended and each party seeks to destroy the other using whatever logical fallacies (or not) they choose. Many people (in my experience) can’t seem to grasp the difference. To them, there are only two forms of discussion, tact agreement or all out war. You will agree with their viewpoint or you’re just an idiot.

What’s with that?
I agree. It is quite easy to spot at parties when 2 people are drunk and they start having a 'deep and meaningful' conversation. I was talking about this with my flatmates today. One basically said 'when you're drunk and stoned you'll understand'. My response was 'I already understand that you're drunk and stoned'.

Apart from it being irrational, its also really cheesie and lame. To be honest, it nearly makes me puke. I'm a friendly guy when I'm pissed but I have zero tollerance for bull$hit.
 

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