Social Inertia in Japan

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I have to rant about some obscure social custom here in Japan that has long outlived it's usefulness. It's called the Bell Mark, and what it is a system in which food companies put a little mark on their package labels, which indicates a bell and a number of points, often one or 1.5, which can be redeemed to buy educational supplies (1 point = 1 yen or a little less than a penny). So when people (esp. parents with schoolchildren) buy food at the grocery store, they can cut out these little marks, gather them, and turn them into their local PTA (which, BTW, is not optional for parents in Japan; if you have a child in school, you are expected to participate).

Last year my wife was in charge of gathering and sorting these bell marks. She had to sort them by company and calculate each company's respective contribution. Considering just her time alone, she told me she spent about 10 hours total in this endeavor, collecting the marks from each household and tallying and getting them ready to take to wherever they take them to redeem them. The marks totaled about 800 points, or in other words 800 yen. BTW, minimum wage in Japan is about 800 yen per hour. I said: look, I'd rather pay them 5000 yen in cash than have you go through this, but she said that this is something you just have to do, you don't question it. People would think we are trying to shirk our responsibilities. Since I'm a foreigner, I figured it probably isn't my place to make a stink about this. It is kind of a tradition. Oh well. But I'm definitely throwing away my bell marks. I won't add to the problem. Next year it will be someone else's turn. Maybe eventually someone will stand up and point out that the Emperor has no clothes, but not this year.

BTW, the mandatory PTA thing also means that very few Japanese women work outside the home while their kids are in school. In effect, it is a barrier to participation in the workforce.
 
This reminds me of some charity benefits. Those times when Society Ladies get together and solicit donations for some gala or other. When all is said and done, the merchants have donated $50,000 dollars worth of merchandise, and the final tally is that $5000 was raised for the cause. When any of the 'members' could have written a check for the net. Worthless. What a waste of effort. But I don't complain about the Society Women wasting their time...
 
Speaking of social inertia in Japan, something I know is deeply embedded in the culture but which I cannot stand is the gift-giving. Especially when it's unsolicited crap that I don't want from someone we don't even know very well but obligates us (actually my wife, since I often refuse to perpetuate the never-ending saga) to spend money to return the "favor" down the road.

It's gotten to the point that when someone does it, it feels like I'm being handed a bill from out of nowhere.
 
This reminds me of some charity benefits. Those times when Society Ladies get together and solicit donations for some gala or other. When all is said and done, the merchants have donated $50,000 dollars worth of merchandise, and the final tally is that $5000 was raised for the cause. When any of the 'members' could have written a check for the net. Worthless. What a waste of effort. But I don't complain about the Society Women wasting their time...

Well that depends, I can see situations where getting rid of the merchandise would be a benefit to the merchant, lowers taxable inventory and such.
 
Well that depends, I can see situations where getting rid of the merchandise would be a benefit to the merchant, lowers taxable inventory and such.

Perhaps, but when you realize that 'time is money' any economic activity that produces significantly less return than minimun wage seems to be fairly useless unless the activity itself has some other intrinsic benefit, such as people enjoy doing it (like knitting your own sweater as a hobby).
 
Speaking of social inertia in Japan, something I know is deeply embedded in the culture but which I cannot stand is the gift-giving. Especially when it's unsolicited crap that I don't want from someone we don't even know very well but obligates us (actually my wife, since I often refuse to perpetuate the never-ending saga) to spend money to return the "favor" down the road.

It's gotten to the point that when someone does it, it feels like I'm being handed a bill from out of nowhere.

That's another one. I actually heard about cases such as someone received an empty envelope (for like 30,000 yen; for those not familiar you can buy special gift money envelopes in Japan with a small figure on the outside that says how much it is supposed to contain) from an older relative, and still felt obligated to give a 'han-gaeshi' (return gift of half the value).

The curious thing is, it seems that many Japanese don't like the gift-giving culture either, but they go along with it nonetheless.
 
Perhaps, but when you realize that 'time is money' any economic activity that produces significantly less return than minimun wage seems to be fairly useless unless the activity itself has some other intrinsic benefit, such as people enjoy doing it (like knitting your own sweater as a hobby).

Oh I am not saying that this activity makes any sense, just that donating material does not nessacarily mean a loss of anything like its value.

This activity is stupid.
 
That's another one. I actually heard about cases such as someone received an empty envelope (for like 30,000 yen; for those not familiar you can buy special gift money envelopes in Japan with a small figure on the outside that says how much it is supposed to contain) from an older relative, and still felt obligated to give a 'han-gaeshi' (return gift of half the value).

So half an empty envolope?
 
They assume it was like an old person having a senior moment, who simply forgot to put the money in the envelope. In Japanese culture, it would be considered impolite to point this out so the only thing to do is pretend that the money was in there so the person can save face.

(I'm not saying this is really the best way to handle it, but I have heard this story; typically an older guest at a wedding).
 
They assume it was like an old person having a senior moment, who simply forgot to put the money in the envelope. In Japanese culture, it would be considered impolite to point this out so the only thing to do is pretend that the money was in there so the person can save face.

(I'm not saying this is really the best way to handle it, but I have heard this story; typically an older guest at a wedding).

This sounds like a letter that was being circulated about 25 years ago. In part:

Dear Sonny,

I was going to send you $50 but I already sealed the envelope.

Love Mamma,
Good luck with changing old traditions that have outlived their purpose. It is a sysiphean task. IMHO we are adding such traditions at an ever accelerating pace and even making them mandatory.

Bottle deposit is one example. When first implemented the .05 return was significant to many people. Today you can barely get minimum wage for your time rinsing, sorting, storing, transporting, redeeming. The only reason anyone does it is it's helping to save the world. Not.
 
...someone received an empty [gift] envelope from an older relative, and still felt obligated to give a 'han-gaeshi' (return gift of half the value)

Return gift of half value...of nothing? Sounds easy enough! :)
 

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