(To the moderators: I see there is a separate "EDUCATION" forum at the JREF. Only 4,000+ posts. In my opinion, threads with little response should be consolidated into the more popular threads to generate better response. If my thread gets shifted over there, this will be akin to it being placed on the trash heap. Therefore, I'd appreciate it if you would count this as a "SOCIAL ISSUE".)
When I went to school, from 1958-1971, it was all serious. It was strict...but not overly so. Not as bad as when my parents went...but strict enough, non the less. It was like reporting to a job, everyday. And that's about what I thought of it as; some job I didn't really care for.
In high school, I went to one of the largest schools in the state. We had 3 school principles. My graduating class had about 750 in it. We had about 30 kids in each class. I was given homework quite regularly in about 3/4 of the classes. I had to do essays and term papers also, and these could range from say 15-30 pages in length. I couldn't wait to get out of there. I had enough. Never cared to go on to any more schooling after this.
There is this neighbor girl in high school that I talk to. She goes to a small school. She just *loves* going to school. Friday night she will say, "I wish Monday would get here!". I'd say, "What?!". She'd say, "I can't wait to go back to school." I'd say, "You're kiddin', right?" She wasn't...and isn't. She just loves school.
So I have pinned her down as to why. The reason is, that the kids there can talk back to and debate with the teachers without getting in trouble. This actually creates more interaction between students and teachers. There is a lot of social interaction going on with classmates/friends right in the class. It sounds to me, from listenining to her, that she gets to go to a party everyday, and on the side, they happen to learn stuff!
What might play into this, in her particular case is that she may be bigger than many of her teachers, let alone her female classmates. Me, on the other hand...I was a late bloomer and smaller than almost everyone, and perhaps there was an intimidation factor there. Even though I wan't picked, on, you still realize that there is a pecking order, and I was near the bottom.
I have been thinking about this for a while now. Maybe that's a *good* thing, rather than a bad thing (regarding it being fun at school). Maybe this helps kids stay interested in going to school. Maybe this helps kids develop better social skills as well. I think the social aspect was more overlooked.
It sure was by my *parents* anyway. All they cared about was that I got good grades. So perhaps I can't blame it all on the schools. That I was programmed by my parents to make sure I studied and got good grades.
Then, maybe it's all simply the fact that her school is small, and mine was so big, and therein lies the real reasions for the difference. That perhaps larger schools have a need to run more of a tight ship, so to speak, so things don't get out of hand.
But maybe big schools could learn something here, regarding the little schools.
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So what was *your* view of school? Did you enjoy it? Was it just O.K.? Would you have preferred it to be more disciplined? Less? More social interaction between both teachers and students during class (not counting extra-cirricular activities)..or, do you believe that the proper place for this is in extra-cirricular activities (your sports and the various clubs)? And what role did your parents play in all of this?
When I went to school, from 1958-1971, it was all serious. It was strict...but not overly so. Not as bad as when my parents went...but strict enough, non the less. It was like reporting to a job, everyday. And that's about what I thought of it as; some job I didn't really care for.
In high school, I went to one of the largest schools in the state. We had 3 school principles. My graduating class had about 750 in it. We had about 30 kids in each class. I was given homework quite regularly in about 3/4 of the classes. I had to do essays and term papers also, and these could range from say 15-30 pages in length. I couldn't wait to get out of there. I had enough. Never cared to go on to any more schooling after this.
There is this neighbor girl in high school that I talk to. She goes to a small school. She just *loves* going to school. Friday night she will say, "I wish Monday would get here!". I'd say, "What?!". She'd say, "I can't wait to go back to school." I'd say, "You're kiddin', right?" She wasn't...and isn't. She just loves school.
So I have pinned her down as to why. The reason is, that the kids there can talk back to and debate with the teachers without getting in trouble. This actually creates more interaction between students and teachers. There is a lot of social interaction going on with classmates/friends right in the class. It sounds to me, from listenining to her, that she gets to go to a party everyday, and on the side, they happen to learn stuff!
What might play into this, in her particular case is that she may be bigger than many of her teachers, let alone her female classmates. Me, on the other hand...I was a late bloomer and smaller than almost everyone, and perhaps there was an intimidation factor there. Even though I wan't picked, on, you still realize that there is a pecking order, and I was near the bottom.
I have been thinking about this for a while now. Maybe that's a *good* thing, rather than a bad thing (regarding it being fun at school). Maybe this helps kids stay interested in going to school. Maybe this helps kids develop better social skills as well. I think the social aspect was more overlooked.
It sure was by my *parents* anyway. All they cared about was that I got good grades. So perhaps I can't blame it all on the schools. That I was programmed by my parents to make sure I studied and got good grades.
Then, maybe it's all simply the fact that her school is small, and mine was so big, and therein lies the real reasions for the difference. That perhaps larger schools have a need to run more of a tight ship, so to speak, so things don't get out of hand.
But maybe big schools could learn something here, regarding the little schools.
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So what was *your* view of school? Did you enjoy it? Was it just O.K.? Would you have preferred it to be more disciplined? Less? More social interaction between both teachers and students during class (not counting extra-cirricular activities)..or, do you believe that the proper place for this is in extra-cirricular activities (your sports and the various clubs)? And what role did your parents play in all of this?