Yahzi said:
The Ontological argument thinks it can will into being an object simply by logically proving that object must exist. This is metaphysical absurdity.
A popular but not universally accepted refutation is given by Kant and others, baldly stated "existence is not a predicate". That is, saying "X exists" adds nothing to the concept of X.
I have an idea of a circle, the geometric definition. It is a perfect circle, by definition. No such circle exists. Same with the perfect (or better, but still not good enough) "necessary being".
I have an idea of a logically necessary being. This idea has implications that make it superior to the idea of a being whose existence is not necessary. If this necessary being does not exist, then it is inferior than beings that do exist. But that contradicts the necessity inherent in my idea. Therefore that thing I have an idea of exists.
Here, I'd argue that you don't have an idea of a necessary being. Ask the person making the argument to state just what he means by "necessary" - without using that word, or the words "real" or "existing".
Bet they can't. Necessity is a loaded term. Logical necessity is purely formal. Physical necessity is more in the nature of "highly probable, other things being equal". Operations that are claimed to be "medically necessary" may not be. Otherwise I'd go to a logician for my heartbeat irregularity, rather than a cardiologist.
You might also say "why yes, I'll grant you that god has exactly as much existence as a perfect circle in euclidean geometry - just as much and no more".
Or "whatever exists is subject to coming into being and passing away. If God exists then he can cease to exist. If god cannot cease to exist, then his existence is quite different than the existence of everything else, and you are not entitled to use the word 'existence' to describe his manner of being."