Language not an issue
She has seen the "Humbug" episode, and we took her to see P&T in Vegas last Spring. I'm not concerned about her picking up words, my husband doesn't restrain his language much, though he's not as um, inventive, as Penn- LOL. The only ones she ever seems to pick up are from me, go figure. I think the difference is that if I'm going to curse, it is said with a lot of emotion. My husband just throws them in out of habit. But she's never gotten into trouble at school for coarse language- just for saying things like "Saint Nick was a real man, but he's dead now" and "Santa is your father."
As far as the baby at the previous meeting, I can see where it might be worth a try if the infant was young enough to be sleeping more than awake- but courtesy would dictate grabbing the seat closest to the door and fleeing at the first whimper. I did know a gal who managed to bring her infant to Organic Chemistry class for the first couple of months of his life without significantly disrupting the class. Depends a lot on the kid's personality and the parents' sensitivity, but it is not unfathomable. Of course, the problem is that by the time you figure out whether you've got one of those kids, they've grown enough to change their habits. One of the things that keeps parenting challenging!
I am thinking it really doesn't make sense for her. She's well behaved- for a hyperactive 8 year old, LOL. Of course, the meds help. A lot! But I just wouldn't want to put that much pressure on her to perform: "You can be the exception to the rule, but that means everybody is going to be watching you, waiting to show that the rule is there for a reason." I'm not contesting the reason, either- people pay good money to go to hear and see the speakers, and they deserve not to be distracted by (hopefully) whispered requests for clarification or the "I'm hungry/cold/bored" or "When can we go swimming?" mantras. So I'll be telling her the rule is that you have to be at least 13 for TAM4. Whether we try to bring her to Vegas or I'll be coming solo- or just order the DVDs, I've yet to decide, though....
Thanks for the reality checks!
Susan E.