I know that in a Bernoulli Trial situation, probability can be defined as the relative frequency of successes if the trial is repeated indefinitely.
But how do we define probability in one-off situations (for example, predicting that a certain event will take place at a certain date)? The concept of probability is still meaningful in these situations because if you can accurately calculate the probability of one-off events you can (in the long run) make money by betting on one-off events.
Even though it may be possible to accurately calculate the probability of a one-off event, defining probability in this situation is still problematic. Many text books define probability as a "degree of belief" but that seems to me to just be a synonym for probability.
Can anybody do better?
I guess you could define it as “largeness of opportunities”. Imagine a ball that falls from a random position above 4 slots. If the slots are evenly spaced, there are 4 options with equal “size”, so they have equal probability. If you double the width of slot 4, you still have 4 options but now slot 4 has twice the “size”, so it has twice the probability. Slot 4 has a greater “largeness of opportunities”. Similarly, if there are 5 slots of equal size numbered 1,2,3,4,4, there are still 4 options, but 4 has twice as many “opportunities”, so it has a has a greater “largeness of opportunities”.
The word “opportune” is from the Latin meaning “favorable” from the phrase ob portum veniens “coming toward a port”. Each slot has an opportunity to get the ball, but some may be more opportune or favorable than others based on their size or frequency. Just as wind drives a ship into a harbor, probability drives a ball into a slot.
The problem with this analogy is that it tends to anthropomorphize things. Is there some god who decides which options are the most favorable and who drives the ball to the most favorable slot most of the time? If not, then what does? What drives the ball?
The word “probability” comes from the Latin “probare” meaning to test or try. This is similar to the definition you quote of “degree of belief”. The word “chance” comes from the Latin “cadens” meaning “to fall”. Like that ball I mentioned above. And in English has come to mean both “opportunity” and “randomness”.
I think the puzzle you are facing is not the definition of “probability” but rather the definition of “randomness”. We can calculate the probability that an event can happen, but in a one-off test there can only be one result. What determines the result is “randomness”. In the real world, we don’t see randomness. People can learn to flip coins to get a certain result. Rolling dice is more difficult, but we could build dice rolling machines that get certain results fairly accurately. Even computers don’t generate truly random numbers. Perhaps in quantum physics there is something random in the real world that is truly random, but I don’t think we understand that yet.
So the “randomness” that determines the result of a one-off event is the very “vague intuitive idea” that you are trying to avoid. I don’t think we can avoid it. But I also don’t think it is a difficult concept.