Being White or Black....
In the context of my experiences in Tallahasee -
My wife ran school programs for "at risk" kids and hired people to work in them. She had a vietnamese worker and at temperature reading one day, the kids (both white, black and a few mixed) asked her whether she was white or black. When she said neither, there was total disbelief. That wasn't an option that existed for them.
Tallahassee is often called "Florida with a Southern flavor".
Less than a mile outside the state capitol building are areas of abject poverty, shacks beside the railroad with no running water, no electricity and folks who sit on the porch with shotguns on their laps.
This contrasts with the question when I first arrived "Would my wife be joining the faculty wives embroidery circle?"