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Handling the "Argument from mystery"

Donn

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Mystery and Faith and Religion

I have been trying to talk sense into an old friend who has a bad case of the religion virus.
The really odd thing in his case is that it's not a straightforward belief - it's not a "literal bible" or "Catholic" case, it's not even a vanilla "Christianity" case; it's a merging of Buddhism and Catholicism with several twists.

"Leap of Faith"
At the base of every chain of my reasoned questioning is his stock reply: I believe because it's a mystery.
( He does not say it that plainly, it's my precis. )

He says things like:
"I am/was/still am/am not a creature of two minds. Jesus is, and Jesus is not; both are true. It is illogical but necessary for my mental wellbeing. But how long can I be a creature of two minds? I say to myself then: 'I must not deny Jesus; and not exalt myself.' So I will not deny him. But it's not that simple, as you can see from above...!"

Then he says:
"Some things, like the words of Christ, cannot be tampered with. Christ's teaching is perfect"
Which seems to be a contradiction.

I don't know, is this a compartmentalized mind, split three or more ways, or is it something more?

I wrote:
>From my pov, believers have not done the homework. They have not connected the dots. They have glossed-over the tough bits and they cherry-pick the parts they swallow.
He replied:
They have not done the homework; they have glossed over the tough bits; they have cherry-picked the parts they swallow...Gandhi said something to the effect that he might be floored in a debate with an atheist, let's say, but he goes behind the relative and attains the absolute. In order to make some kind of progress, the leap of faith must be taken; there is no time to explore all the reasonable alternatives: it's time (and there's always this terrible urgency for every moment is a moment of crisis - Merton) to go beyond reason, beyond, away....

It's always an argument by "mystical reference" with him.

I said (meaning him specifically) :
>For example, when I begin asking tough questions, when I start to give a believer good examples of what I mean, the believer resorts to a bunker mentality and shuts down, refusing to extend their horizons. This proves that thought and religion do not mix. QED.
He says:
"In order to have faith (an unshakable belief in something esp. without proof) means to forego that proof, to stop questioning to a great degree or every degree. But the intellect has its place in the religious life...don't think that it doesn't."

I said:
>So few speak with that small voice of truth : Reason. They are drowned out by the multitude who put their fingers in their ears and say "nah nah nah nah I can't hear you."
When I try, in my broken way: that's what I feel you have been doing to me.
He replied:
It's not that 'I will not hear' but that 'I must not hear' for my own good. I guess lots say nah nah and refuse to hear because they feel threatened, and rightly so...this sceptical stuff etc. is hard stuff to swallow for a person who believes, who is a believer... I know from my own experience. It's tough! It's upsetting; it touches on the dark side in the believer

I can't post more about what he said concerning his "Buddha nature", he asked me to keep it private. I wish I could, but it's moot.
The thing about the Buddhism mix-in: it is Zen and I/no-I and all that "mysterious" stuff. It's all about confounding the mind and trying to "force" Enlightenment etc. Please forgive my broad strokes, I think he is using Zen and Tibetan Buddhism as his main influences.

So, it seems to be an attraction to mystery for it's own sake. How can you argue against this?
A leap of faith into mystery. Belief is valid because mystery is outside all systems of thought and argument and logic and evidence etc. I'm sure there are fallacies and so forth here, but I need to enumerate them and I am not at all sure how to argue them.

Also, he quotes a lot of people, but here is one that I thought I would check on:
"The want of belief is a defect that ought to be concealed when it cannot be overcome."
-- Jonathan Swift: Thoughts on Religion
I'm assuming Swift meant "want" as in "desire for", surely!


Finally, some of his particularly noxious (from my pov) quotations were:
Understanding is the reward of Faith. Therefore seek not to understand that thou mayest believe, but believe that thou mayest understand.
St. Augustine: On the Gospel of St. John
( Sounds like Kung-Fu to me )

The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God.
-- Old Testament: Psalms 14:1; 53: 1
( Well, it's directly from that gawd, so it's understandably vile. )

Unbelief does nothing but darken and destroy. It makes the world a moral desert, where no divine footsteps are heard, where no angels ascend and descend, where no living hand adorns the fields, feeds the birds of heaven, or regulates events.
-- Friedrich Wilhelm Krummacher
( Says you ... )

Unbelief, in distinction from disbelief, is a confession of ignorance where honest inquiry might easily find the truth. "Agnostic" is but the Greek for "ignoramus."
-- Tryon Edwards
( Cute. I say, "Woo" is the Geek for believer )

In all unbelief there are these two things; a good opinion of one's self, and a bad opinion of God.
-- Horatius Bonar
( Which I have to say I utterly agree with )

Mock on, mock on, Voltaire, Rousseau;
Mock on, mock on; 'tis all in vain!
You throw the sand against the wind,
And the wind blows it back again.

-- William Blake: Mock on
( I picture the wind as issuing from Blake's "opinion" :) We all have one ... )

I believe because it is impossible.
-- Tertullian: De Carne Christi
( The very nutshell of my post )

Every man who attacks my belief diminishes in some degree my confidence in it, and therefore makes me uneasy, and I am angry with him who makes me uneasy.
-- Samuel Johnson
( Foot bullet )

Believing hath a core of unbelieving.
-- Robert Williams Buchanan: Songs of Seeking
( Which is typical of my friend, he loves his positive-negative space stuff )



Right, over to you.
 
So, it seems to be an attraction to mystery for it's own sake. How can you argue against this?
You probably can't, and shouldn't; rather, you might perhaps explore the possibility of engendering more curiosity about the mysterious. If science and technology - and here I'm thinking of hard science and mathematics in particular - have consistently taught an overarching message, it is that understanding the nature of one mystery seems inevitably to reveal the presence of a few even deeper ones.

To me, that's as valid a reason as any to pursue knowledge: there seems no end of mysteries. And who really wants to stand still?

'Luthon64
 
His "mystery" is not a mystery that can be solved or plumbed or grasped except via "God". It's entirely an excuse for not thinking about anything at all. I suspect. It's hard to tell really.
 
His "mystery" is not a mystery that can be solved or plumbed or grasped except via "God". It's entirely an excuse for not thinking about anything at all. I suspect. It's hard to tell really.

Yes well people attach to stories for emotional reasons, even skeptics have their fair share of them, just not necessarily theistic ones.

I dare to say that we entertain, endulge in no thought unless there is an emotional attachment, which oft happens in a split-second after the "thought", whatever it may be, have entered our minds.
We have this "PR-agent" or "newspaper-press" in our heads, which feeds us such stories quite automatically. The only thing we can do is to question the why, how etc of the given thoughts.

If someone is sooo attached to a thought that he feels is necessary for his well-being, I usually ask "Is that true?".
Then, "is that really true?".
And so forth, there are a few designated methods of inducing a jolt in ones self-critical eye on the stories we entertain, but if it is giving you stress and anguish then why bother.
 
Also, he quotes a lot of people, but here is one that I thought I would check on:
"The want of belief is a defect that ought to be concealed when it cannot be overcome."
-- Jonathan Swift: Thoughts on Religion
I'm assuming Swift meant "want" as in "desire for", surely!

Hmmm....I'd guess that "want" means "lack" in this context.
 
Mystery and Faith and Religion

I have been trying to talk sense into an old friend who has a bad case of the religion virus.
The virus seems to have completely destroyed his mind. Very sad.

Just shows, there are even worse things to be than a fundamentalist. At least with fundamentalists there is the possibility they will realise they are wrong. But if your concept of truth is so flexible that it doesn't mean anything anymore there's really no way back.
 
It seems to me your friend has written a program that could easily pass a Turing test of the form "Is this a machine or a pothead?" and you have been conversing with it.
 
Hmmm....I'd guess that "want" means "lack" in this context.
I assumed that Swif,t being an icon of Randi's, would not have suffered from the virus. I just wikipedia'd him and it seems I was wrong.

It seems to me your friend has written a program that could easily pass a Turing test of the form "Is this a machine or a pothead?" and you have been conversing with it.
Tempting as it seems to relegate him to something like that, he is quite sober, a teetotaler even. However, as usual, your pith makes a cutting point.

I guess this thread is related to what Piggy is trying to do in his various "there just ain't no god" threads. Especially his point about an ineffable god who ends up being no different to nothing at all.

Am I wrong in thinking that there is a single "system" ( however complex ) that is closest to the truth ( being what actually is ) such that one can discern when another is either wrong or right about something ?

I get a little swamped by all the beliefs and opinions ( and philosophy threads ). My mind wants to keep it simple and so I imagine a path ( ironically narrow ) that wanders through all these opinions and half-baked theories and visions of reality - this path is laid-down stone by stone, by science and evidence and reason. All other paths are virtual or in error and will inevitably lead one astray.

So, if that is okay then it follows that there are certain questions/arguments that anyone can be asked/posed and that there are also certain answers/understandings that must be the only ones that can set you on the true path. The wrong answers set you on the wrong path.

It then follows that there must be a way, by asking simpler and simpler questions, to literally force understanding upon someone who is on the wrong path. By not answering the questions, or by eluding them in any way they must then confess that they are not being intellectually honest; that there is an element of equivocation.
If they answer that you are right, but they are not strong enough to take that step yet, then fine, they are being honest.

I don't mean deep understanding, or mastery of difficult concepts like quantum physics, I mean simple short concepts that lead like stepping stones towards an inevitable agreement or an glaringly obvious split where one can then point out that the other person is actually and evidently in the wrong, there is no fudge room.

So, it's a matter of having a flowchart of questions and concepts that lead someone onto the true path or leave them starkly and inarguably in the wrong, or - at least - leave them on a path to the path, so to speak.

It seems to me this is what a lot of threads on the JREFF try to do. It's a pity they can become bogged-down so quickly. Sometime a thread seems to be taking an off-pather down this lane of inevitable sense, only to have it all come apart.

I don't know where I'm going really. I feel I am on the right path, with doubt too, and I wanted to help my old friend onto the same one. My frustration and pain is that none of my arguments seem to work and that I cannot demonstrate to him where he is being equivocal and hypocritical and plain wrong. It's like he is colour-blind to those part of the argument - I call that "intellectual" dishonesty, because you are posing as one taking part in an argument, but you are really playing it like game and not being serious.

Ah well. I meander.
 
To add to this singularly popular thread:

I just started reading "The end of faith" and on pg 25 Sam Harris says:
"Religious faith represents so uncompromising a misuse of the power of our minds ..."

My friend would see this as an attraction of faith. To him 'mind' is the problem. I suppose 'mind', to him, is distraction and temptation and weakness and sin and evil and so forth.

How many of us who argue against Religion are missing this shade of meaning? We would use the above quotation as a means of saying "Do you see how crazy it is to not use your mind?"; meanwhile back at the ranch ...
 
So, it seems to be an attraction to mystery for it's own sake. How can you argue against this?

For its own sake? There's no argument against that, but your friend is losing his clarity by trying to dress it up as Theism and Jesus. The Mystery will not be dress dolled.
The Mystery doesn't move me toward beleiving six impossible things before breakfast. It moves me to let go of my beliefs, at most to use them conventionally and functionally. The Mystery has no metaphysical content to stand upon. it's utterly groundless.
 
There's a rap song out now that you should take to heart.

"You never argue with a crazy mother****er. You oughta know by now."
 
It's not that 'I will not hear' but that 'I must not hear' for my own good. I guess lots say nah nah and refuse to hear because they feel threatened, and rightly so...this sceptical stuff etc. is hard stuff to swallow for a person who believes, who is a believer... I know from my own experience. It's tough! It's upsetting; it touches on the dark side in the believer...

Can you ask him if he's living in a trailer full of old junk he could not decide to throw away?
 
Wow - a lot of hard words. I was hoping for some insight, it's not my intention to belittle him, I would rather help him somehow.

Either he has a point or there is a way to reach him and shake him awake, or he needs real medical / psychological help.

He could have a point in a Sam Harris "Science of the mind" kind of way. Perhaps he is just too close to it ( this "spiritual insight" ) and has no skill in critical-thining, he cannot sort out what he is going through and so he only sounds like five flavours of loops?

Look, I'm not a scientist and my credentials are not a mile long either. I spent many years with this chap during high school talking philosophy and Zen and so forth. There was no 'net back then and we only had limited information. No evolution was taught in our state-run school. There was no critical-thinking education either. I am only hearing and learning about this stuff now, in my 30's! It's all news. So, in a way, I am partly responsible for the meme-guff that's infecting his mind right now.
 
Wow - a lot of hard words. I was hoping for some insight, it's not my intention to belittle him, I would rather help him somehow.

Either he has a point or there is a way to reach him and shake him awake, or he needs real medical / psychological help.

He could have a point in a Sam Harris "Science of the mind" kind of way. Perhaps he is just too close to it ( this "spiritual insight" ) and has no skill in critical-thining, he cannot sort out what he is going through and so he only sounds like five flavours of loops?

Look, I'm not a scientist and my credentials are not a mile long either. I spent many years with this chap during high school talking philosophy and Zen and so forth. There was no 'net back then and we only had limited information. No evolution was taught in our state-run school. There was no critical-thinking education either. I am only hearing and learning about this stuff now, in my 30's! It's all news. So, in a way, I am partly responsible for the meme-guff that's infecting his mind right now.

Well Donn, your friend is arguing that 'ignorance is bliss'. He does that while enjoying the things that science brings, like e-mail. Science brings him a better life at every turn and he attributes it all to his faith.

That's pretty screwed up.
 

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