AtheistArchon
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- I've been meaning to write an essay for some time now about the idea of government-controlled families. In other words, a perverbial "license to procreate". Brutish as it may seem on the surface, I'd like to examine it rationally. This isn't a concentrated attempt at covering all the bases, just food for the thread.
- We've all heard the Stories of useless/irresponsible people (men and women alike) who simply have no interest in investing even the slightest amount of work into family planning, and who perceive the government as supporting them better the more kids they pop out that they can't support.
- We've also heard the stories about parents who are almost unanimously regarded as unfit to rear children. Additionally, we all know the deal behind the whole abortion debate: Rape? Accident? Incest? Already have 15 kids? Can't afford a can of beans? No matter, pop that kid out anyway.
- We should ask: where's the line drawn between responsible, capable adults having children and a person/couple/gang who couldn't care less? And should we even make any moves towards restricting even the worst parent imaginable from having children?
- Something to consider is the fact that in this day and age, in America and the rest of the "civilized" world, there is no environmental pressure that threatens the human species. Resources are growing ever more scarce. The problem only gets worse in 3rd-world nations like India, where overpopulation is a serious issue and people really do starve to death. We don't need to have a truckload of babies to sustain humanity. In fact, a reduction of the population in many areas would enable the end result to live much more comfortably and with many more resources.
- This in mind, why have a child? Nobody "needs" to reproduce. Lots of people "want" to reproduce. The reasons are many and varied, most of them the result of religious indoctrination, but in general it's seen as a societal norm to grow up and have kids. I'm also not discounting evolutionary instinct either, something which may in fact lie behind all the other indoctrinative efforts (including religion). Why don't more people ask themselves why they want to have kids before they rush headlong into it?
- As an example, my wife and I are childless, and we will never have any kids. I've had surgery to make certain (or at least more certain) that this will be the case, and we both felt this way before we got married. We both work, we both contribute to society, we both have tons of free time. We sleep through the night without fail, barring the occasional barking dog. We have enough money to eat out four and five times a week if we like. We never need babysitters. We live comfortably and we survive successfully, and neither of us have even a college degree. But this lifestyle is almost never touted in our society. The ideal is always portrayed as husband, wife, and 2.5 kids.
- Something else to think about is, of course, personal freedom. Why should the government step in to tell a single woman she can't have a child if she wants one? How much money should you have to make before you're "allowed" to get pregnant? Where is the cut-off point for the number of kids you're allowed to have vs. your ability to support them?
- Finally, does even a polished and successful plan to forcefully control childbirth compare to a society where freedom allows both capable and disastrous parental experiments? Or does the long-term survivability of the species trump the personal desire to reproduce - because widespread reduction in population is inevitable if a critical mass is achieved. Do the mere desires of a couple outweigh the starvation and death of a child that can't be supported?
- Weigh in, I'd like to hear everyone's responses.
- We've all heard the Stories of useless/irresponsible people (men and women alike) who simply have no interest in investing even the slightest amount of work into family planning, and who perceive the government as supporting them better the more kids they pop out that they can't support.
- We've also heard the stories about parents who are almost unanimously regarded as unfit to rear children. Additionally, we all know the deal behind the whole abortion debate: Rape? Accident? Incest? Already have 15 kids? Can't afford a can of beans? No matter, pop that kid out anyway.
- We should ask: where's the line drawn between responsible, capable adults having children and a person/couple/gang who couldn't care less? And should we even make any moves towards restricting even the worst parent imaginable from having children?
- Something to consider is the fact that in this day and age, in America and the rest of the "civilized" world, there is no environmental pressure that threatens the human species. Resources are growing ever more scarce. The problem only gets worse in 3rd-world nations like India, where overpopulation is a serious issue and people really do starve to death. We don't need to have a truckload of babies to sustain humanity. In fact, a reduction of the population in many areas would enable the end result to live much more comfortably and with many more resources.
- This in mind, why have a child? Nobody "needs" to reproduce. Lots of people "want" to reproduce. The reasons are many and varied, most of them the result of religious indoctrination, but in general it's seen as a societal norm to grow up and have kids. I'm also not discounting evolutionary instinct either, something which may in fact lie behind all the other indoctrinative efforts (including religion). Why don't more people ask themselves why they want to have kids before they rush headlong into it?
- As an example, my wife and I are childless, and we will never have any kids. I've had surgery to make certain (or at least more certain) that this will be the case, and we both felt this way before we got married. We both work, we both contribute to society, we both have tons of free time. We sleep through the night without fail, barring the occasional barking dog. We have enough money to eat out four and five times a week if we like. We never need babysitters. We live comfortably and we survive successfully, and neither of us have even a college degree. But this lifestyle is almost never touted in our society. The ideal is always portrayed as husband, wife, and 2.5 kids.
- Something else to think about is, of course, personal freedom. Why should the government step in to tell a single woman she can't have a child if she wants one? How much money should you have to make before you're "allowed" to get pregnant? Where is the cut-off point for the number of kids you're allowed to have vs. your ability to support them?
- Finally, does even a polished and successful plan to forcefully control childbirth compare to a society where freedom allows both capable and disastrous parental experiments? Or does the long-term survivability of the species trump the personal desire to reproduce - because widespread reduction in population is inevitable if a critical mass is achieved. Do the mere desires of a couple outweigh the starvation and death of a child that can't be supported?
- Weigh in, I'd like to hear everyone's responses.