I followed Debbie Hayton's blog for several years, another who seems rational, accepts he's male, accepts any pronouns, has maintained his marriage since "transsexual" transition, and writes a gender-critical blog. Yet I still disagreed with one or two of in his opinions. He suffered the common misconception that he passed brilliantly as a woman, and was accepted as one most of the time, including at airports, where he'd usually get greeted as 'madam', when it's fairly obvious he's a transsexual, I think, to most people. I don't have a problem with that, but it did make him argue that he should be able to have his "F" on his passport and other documents (since why would anyone at customs have a clue he wasn't male - it would just cause confusion if it said "M"). He basically has the view that if people see you as a woman, you kind of are a woman, even if you're female. Gender in the eye of the beholder, so no harm done. I hold no negativity about that, but I couldn't accept it philosophically. And I started to wonder about the wisdom of his employment as a teacher in a school, although he seems harmless enough. He's quite a celeb on the GC circuit, friends of Glinner et al.
